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dappleddawndrawndauphin

OK to pacify my negative repper ( :p:

) , keep myself from looking absymally shallow and just out of interest, here's another poll. Last one I swear.

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Reply 1

username18215

Well wheres the poll?

Reply 2

dappleddawndrawndauphin

md_red_uk

Well wheres the poll?

above...like your sig quote btw

Reply 3

Mrs_F

Really it is all of them. But having to pick one I have chose sense of humour as I think that is vital - of course all of the other attributes are needed as well!

Reply 4

Cellardore

probably between making me feel good about myself and a good listener. I'm not a very good listener, i'm more of a talker :p:

so i'd need that balance.

Reply 5

xxSpicyChickenxx

sense of humour is always vital... but so is kindness AND making you feel good about your self. :rolleyes:

i would choose most of them if i could.

Reply 6

dappleddawndrawndauphin

lessthanthree

I have no idea. I mean - I don't really weigh up the pros and cons of a person before I start going out with them, I guess I just pick out what I see in them - I don't actively persue a characteristic.

Neither do I - perhaps I should rephrase. What I am basically asking, rather than what traits you actively seek in a potential partner/friend, is what seems to be the trait that has drawn you to people the most in the past :smile:

yeah I think they are all important too, for me intelligence, humour and kindness seem to be what most draws me to peoplle though.

Reply 7

pikaboo

Damn, I can't choose! It's just that spark that makes you feel you're really compatible with them, which would be a range of all the above.

Reply 8

dappleddawndrawndauphin

pikaboo

Damn, I can't choose! It's just that spark that makes you feel you're really compatible with them, which would be a range of all the above.

yep that's actually very true! Although I do feel that some qualities are more important to me than others - I don't think i could feel that spark of compatability with someone who was humourless etc!

Reply 9

username18215

*Bethany*

above...like your sig quote btw

Merci pour la comment. Ca va?

Reply 10

covered farm wagon

I think my favourite thing to find in a person is happiness. I like happy people. I mean, they can be sad when necessary, but people who are generally cheerful are my favourite.

Edit: by the way, I ticked 'kindness' on the poll, because kind and thoughtful people are also my favourite.

Reply 11

khil

Kindness would be the most important one - cus with kindness comes everything else! - care, generosity, gentleness - and generally someone very sweet - someone who's kind is also someone who gives, someone who's willing to love and be faithful. It's where some of the most important characteristics spring from. And if the guy cares for you, he'll listen to you :p:

Intelligence, however, is also very important to me - but all my friends and potential partners would have to be kind :smile:

nice people. My ideal partner would be intelligence and kindness combined :smile:

plus passion for God (me Christian that's why)

Reply 12

khil

covered farm wagon

You'll like me then! :biggrin:

:marchmell

Although I can be very thoughtful too :smile:

and not just random!

Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! :marchmell

Reply 13

fabulous_darling

I chose intelligence, but although someone might be super intelligent, I wouldn't go out with them if there weren't also kind, generous and made me feel good about myself. I require a combination of all of the poll options!

Reply 14

Cazzi

kindness, generosity and sense of humor... love all.

i mean today my bf spent 10 mins chasing me round a tree cuz i didnt give him a bite of my sandwich and when i was caught he gave me a flower lol :biggrin:

another random fact of cazzi bears life! :rolleyes:

Reply 15

saz_1989

i need to click with them. this means everything from making me laugh, to listening, to saying what i want and need to hear. you know when you just have that spark with someone...my new bf is like that :love: