I feel like such an idiot

So last night was possibly the last time I am ever going to see this guy I like, and I feel like I should have said/done so much more. He was dancing with his back up against mine for a good ten minutes, but i didn't know what do to so just carried on dancing. Ergh i just feel like such a gimp. Then he went off and came back n ended up doing the same thing. I don't know whether to read anything into it or if I'm just being a ****. So help please. Also, should I add/talk to him on facebook?

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

seriously, noone?

Reply 2

arl89

blob is that you?

Reply 3

Aliceeee :)

PMSL :L

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Reply 4

VanillaLatte

goosh, just add him on facebook nd talk to him ... why seems everyone on here to think that adding someone on facebook is like a commitment or sumthing ...?!

Reply 5

hollo

Dancing with you BACK against HIS? Like you were dancing back to back? Sorry, but nobody I know has ever done this in any way that implied that they were interested in someone. If you really like him just talk to him! Make facebook your saviour! I know how horrible it is to know you could have done something but there could still be a chance...

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

well would it not seem a bit weird if uve never spoken to someone before and u just start talking to them online, like what would i say?

Reply 7

n0c0ntr0l

Lol, I dread to think of how many of these threads will appear today. Add him on facebook. End of.

Reply 8

a_t

Don't worry OP you are an idiot, for stressing over whether to add someone on facebook or not

Seriously wtf?

Reply 9

tinywings

Yes, you are an idiot.

Does that help? :smile:

Reply 10

username196545

arl89

blob is that you?

**** you no that was NOT me!!!!!

Reply 11

J_rocks

It sounds like he was trying to get your attention, maybe he was shy and didn't want to seem too forward by coming up and dancing with you properly....just add him on fb and send him a message asking if he had a good night or something, and from his response you might be able to tell if he's interested :smile:

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

J_rocks

Aah this is exactly what I was hoping someone would say :tongue:

but would now seem too late to ask him if he had a good time, and would it seem weird if we've never properly spoken?

Reply 13

J_rocks

Anonymous

Aah this is exactly what I was hoping someone would say :tongue:

but would now seem too late to ask him if he had a good time, and would it seem weird if we've never properly spoken?

Hahaha

No I wouldn't think it's too late! He definitely knows who you are so adding him on fb isn't weird, and asking if he had a good time would be the natural way to start a conversation seeing as you don't really know him and you need to get things flowing....just add him and see what happens :smile:

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Ok, I'm gonna do it, will let u know what happens lol, even tho you probably don't care :tongue:

Eek.

Reply 15

allieRAWR!

lol, you're reading far too much into this dancing thing. Forget it! =D

Ummm, yeh, just add him on facebook and talk to him =) Everyone does it, it's not a big thing and he won't think you're weird. Go for it ;]

Reply 16

JenKat

I think you should add him on facebook. I also agree that you could break the ice by asking if he had a good time or if you don't want to say that just say you thought you recognised him from that night and just start chatting. I don't think he will find it weird to have someone adding him then trying to chat to him because that's what facebook is for. Just be casual about it so even if it doesn't work out you haven't lost anything. You never know :smile:

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

Ok so if I add him and add the message:
"Hiya
Have a good night on fri?
x"
would that be alright?. I know I sound clueless, Im just such a worrier lol

Reply 18

J_rocks

Anonymous

Ok so if I add him and add the message:
"Hiya
Have a good night on fri?
x"
would that be alright?. I know I sound clueless, Im just such a worrier lol

Yes yes thats fine, add him!! Lol there's really no need to worry so much, it's only facebook! People add/talk to people on there that they've never even met before, at least he knows who you are even if you've never really spoken irl! :p: