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Her older sister was having problems well has been having probelms with the family for 8 years now.. she was planning to run away and needed money for the first month rent of her flat, so she took the ring and came to town, i met up with her and we went to the pawn shop, she sold it off.. she didnt end up moving out into the flat and still lives with her family.. now her family are syaing that no one else came to their house much, that it must be me who has robbed their gold.. which is not true. Her older sister is saying that i shouldnt worry because i haven't taken it and i dont know where it is, but my friend has gone round saying im a theif.. how can i not worry she told me her mom went to the police and they are saying it must be someone who came to your house, and i did used to go to her home, but my family didnt like that. They found out from people that the girls where somewhat of pimps and held a reputation around the area so i began to back away from them. My mate tried phoning my dads phone as i was on holiday and if i my family find out about this they'll go mad at me for becoming friends with such a person. I've decided to never talk to the girl agian as a true friend wouldn't do such a thing, but I dont know how to resolve this problem, should i go to the police and tell them and try to get hold of the second copy of the reciept in the shop or should i tell the friend her sister stole it Help.. x
Perhaps you should take this as a sign that you need to disconnect yourself entirely from this family?
and yeahh my friend is pakistani too... so she does want to make a big scene.. but liek when they find out its their own sister who took it then itll get thrown in her face.. but the problem is how do i introduce the fact that her own sister did it.. if i try telling the sister to own up shed probably either run away, or shed say it was me and that i sold it of... even still they could go to the shop and see that she gave id and took the money for it.. but all along theyd be making me look like teh theif and shes told people that ive robbed it.. she wont go round syaing ohh her sister robbed it not me..
People are not stupid. If you are not generally disliked and this girl is a gossip/bit of a character they won't all believe the first crap they hear about you from her.
even still they could go to the shop and see that she gave id and took the money for it..
the girl is like one of those big eyeliner flicks, big quiff alot of makeup overly tight clothes no college kicked out of school and not liked by girls, and herself only talks to guys... i was wrong to become friends with her, i became lazy she'd try taking me to places where she had people who didnt like her and tried to make me fight for her, so i slowly began to back of..my family said to wait until they do something, or we could ask advice from our family friend who is a solicitor. But im not planning on speaking to the girl or her family, and i had to let my family know that i was a knob to not listen to them when they told me that the girl was bad..all of my friends are saying that she is a knob and that they know im not like that.. but they say solve it as soon as because she could throw any accusation at me.. shes been phoning my family being cheeky and disrespectful.. but i guess i just have to wait.. my family are supportive but they seem stressed and let down by me x
Good luck, I know what it's like to be accused of something you didn't do.
shes been phoning my family being cheeky and disrespectful..
About taking action: I would listen to your family rather than your friends. Both have your interests at heart and your friends sound nice and mean well, but they don't have the life experience your family has. I think you should trust them in this and wait.. in the meantime, talk to your family friend/solicitor about it if you want. Even if it'll turn out not to be necessary it may help you get things into perspective. It's just a bloody ring and you're innocent. And all the people that matter know it.
In a few weeks/months nobody will think about this any more.