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guys are so confusing!
ok well where do i start
met this guy about 3 months ago, we been working on a project since then and we been getting along really well, used to fancy him but found out he had a girlfriend back home so i started to see him as a friend.
Lately we been spending so much time together, as friends of course.
my friends been telling me he fancies me, two of them have, one says he never stopped talkin abt me one day and the other said he got pissed off when he saw me with a guy and said 'i used to fancy her'....
i was on msn earlier and i said oh so and so is really cute and he was like seriously u have bad taste, ur a good looking girl and u need to fix up ur taste etc. he also said other nice things so i dont know what to think!
He's still with his girlfriend and im seeing someone at the moment.
do i take these things as hints or is he just being nice? What do i do?
met this guy about 3 months ago, we been working on a project since then and we been getting along really well, used to fancy him but found out he had a girlfriend back home so i started to see him as a friend.
Lately we been spending so much time together, as friends of course.
my friends been telling me he fancies me, two of them have, one says he never stopped talkin abt me one day and the other said he got pissed off when he saw me with a guy and said 'i used to fancy her'....
i was on msn earlier and i said oh so and so is really cute and he was like seriously u have bad taste, ur a good looking girl and u need to fix up ur taste etc. he also said other nice things so i dont know what to think!
He's still with his girlfriend and im seeing someone at the moment.
do i take these things as hints or is he just being nice? What do i do?
I will say it once and I'll say it again.
DON'T try to get with a guy with a girlfriend.
BAD KARMA!!!!!!
DON'T try to get with a guy with a girlfriend.
BAD KARMA!!!!!!
ummm you said you're with someone, so even if he does fancy you, would you leave whoever you're with for him?
SamTheMan
Guys 
You should try to make him clarify the situation with his girlfriend. Apart from that: 
You should try to make him clarify the situation with his girlfriend. Apart from that: oh hes been with her for nearly 2 years now but i know hes always saying how he got in a fight with her, or how shes irritating and stuff.
jessicarabbit
I will say it once and I'll say it again.
DON'T try to get with a guy with a girlfriend.
BAD KARMA!!!!!!
DON'T try to get with a guy with a girlfriend.
BAD KARMA!!!!!!
he'd never cheat on her, we've discussed cheating before and stuff.
plus if anything happened with us while he was still with her, i wouldnt wanna be with him cos it means he cud do it to me!
Natalie Lane
ummm you said you're with someone, so even if he does fancy you, would you leave whoever you're with for him?
im jus seeing someone, not serious at all, its only been 2 weeks.
plus, he's been with her for nearly 2 years, if he'd be willing to give up that for me id definitely give up my two week "seeing" relationship up.
Natalie Lane
ummm you said you're with someone, so even if he does fancy you, would you leave whoever you're with for him?
holla back girl...
yea i know that sounded stupid but I really like that song!!!
ahem..but yes, why even worry??
Hint
E HAS A GIRLFRIEND....now get your fine ass out there and find a nice single boy!!jessicarabbit
holla back girl...
yea i know that sounded stupid but I really like that song!!!
ahem..but yes, why even worry??
HintE HAS A GIRLFRIEND....now get your fine ass out there and find a nice single boy!!
yea i know that sounded stupid but I really like that song!!!
ahem..but yes, why even worry??
Hint
E HAS A GIRLFRIEND....now get your fine ass out there and find a nice single boy!!What song?
And yes, that's what I was going to suggest, if he's been with her for so long and he's doing nothing but giving hints I really wouldn't take the risk.
Since he's the one with all the hints (and the girlfriend) maybe you should wait for him to say something a bit clearer about it and just let things flow normally in the meanwhile, I wouldn't stand waiting for him if I were you
jessicarabbit
holla back girl...
yea i know that sounded stupid but I really like that song!!!
ahem..but yes, why even worry??
HintE HAS A GIRLFRIEND....now get your fine ass out there and find a nice single boy!!
yea i know that sounded stupid but I really like that song!!!
ahem..but yes, why even worry??
Hint
E HAS A GIRLFRIEND....now get your fine ass out there and find a nice single boy!!ive found myself one of those!
Natalie Lane
And yes, that's what I was going to suggest, if he's been with her for so long and he's doing nothing but giving hints I really wouldn't take the risk.
Since he's the one with all the hints (and the girlfriend) maybe you should wait for him to say something a bit clearer about it and just let things flow normally in the meanwhile, I wouldn't stand waiting for him if I were you
Since he's the one with all the hints (and the girlfriend) maybe you should wait for him to say something a bit clearer about it and just let things flow normally in the meanwhile, I wouldn't stand waiting for him if I were you
im not waiting around for him but i just dont understand what hes trying to get at.
seriously would love to get into his brain and figure out whats going on.
could it just be hes being a nice friend by telling me iv got bad taste and stuff and he means nothing more?
kriztinae
ive found myself one of those!
im not waiting around for him but i just dont understand what hes trying to get at.
seriously would love to get into his brain and figure out whats going on.
could it just be hes being a nice friend by telling me iv got bad taste and stuff and he means nothing more?
im not waiting around for him but i just dont understand what hes trying to get at.
seriously would love to get into his brain and figure out whats going on.
could it just be hes being a nice friend by telling me iv got bad taste and stuff and he means nothing more?
I don't think it's just being a nice friend thing, there seems to be a bit of flirting involved, then again, (being honest) I'm not really sure if it's much more than just that, a bit of flirting but nothing serious
Natalie Lane
What song?
And yes, that's what I was going to suggest, if he's been with her for so long and he's doing nothing but giving hints I really wouldn't take the risk.
Since he's the one with all the hints (and the girlfriend) maybe you should wait for him to say something a bit clearer about it and just let things flow normally in the meanwhile, I wouldn't stand waiting for him if I were you
And yes, that's what I was going to suggest, if he's been with her for so long and he's doing nothing but giving hints I really wouldn't take the risk.
Since he's the one with all the hints (and the girlfriend) maybe you should wait for him to say something a bit clearer about it and just let things flow normally in the meanwhile, I wouldn't stand waiting for him if I were you
the Gwen Stefani song!! the one where in the video she looks...well..goddamn hot
*feels like a big fat cow*
i need to go running tommorrow
oh wait...I'm going to be standing in line all day
jessicarabbit
the Gwen Stefani song!! the one where in the video she looks...well..goddamn hot
*feels like a big fat cow*
i need to go running tommorrow
oh wait...I'm going to be standing in line all day
*feels like a big fat cow*
i need to go running tommorrow
oh wait...I'm going to be standing in line all day
When doesn't she look 'goddamn hot'?
(Where's that moaning thread)and if you'll be in line all day there's only one thing for you to do: Jog on the spot!!!
(flashback to P.E. lessons)don't worry, it won't look weird at all
ahem.
Natalie Lane
I don't think it's just being a nice friend thing, there seems to be a bit of flirting involved, then again, (being honest) I'm not really sure if it's much more than just that, a bit of flirting but nothing serious
fair enough, will see what happens but will definitely not initiate anything!
thanx
kriztinae
he also said other nice things so i dont know what to think!
This is absolutely pathetic. Guys can be nice without having to fancy you, you know!
LennonMcCartney
This is absolutely pathetic. Guys can be nice without having to fancy you, you know!
i know that, thats why i totally overlooked it at the beginning.
but then he told a good friend of mine that he used to fancy me and another good friend of mine how nice and pretty etc he thought i was... why would he do that if he didnt want me to find out?
lessthanthree
Clarify the situation with his girlfriend, and see how he feels about you by maybe asking who he'd prefer you to like when you "fix up your taste"
I think it's unfair on your current boyfriend for you to not be totally into him, and rather into someone else when you're with him.
I think it's unfair on your current boyfriend for you to not be totally into him, and rather into someone else when you're with him.
he keeps getting in arguments with her and says oh shes so annoying.
i already had that convo with him and he said well from our classes i thought ud like this other guy. then he said who do u think is prettiest in our class etc so i said a girls name and he said yeah true but u take the title, honesty at the end of the day. i overlooked the compliment by saying that he wears glasses and his opinion doesnt count!
as with my current boyfriend,i dunno what to think, we see each other once or twice a week. i think if we saw each other more id be more into him and hopefully forget this other guy, but we both have exams now and will have to wait til they're finished!
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