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    Guys, which of the following do you look for in a girl?

    eg. dominant, mean, laid back, shy, low maintenance, angry, mature, dipsy, cant stick up for themself.

    dominant - passive
    sweet - mean
    laid back - serious
    shy - confident
    high maintenance - low maintenance
    angry - calm
    can stick up for themself - cant stick up for themself
    mature - immature
    ditsy - not ditsy
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    Dominant (Well theres no way she'll be more dominant than me, but I do love a stong personality)

    Sweet is a big plus

    I like her to be reasonably laid back bout the right things, and deadly serious about others

    Confidence is a massive +

    Low Maintenance

    Dunno why but I really don't mind angry girls

    i Like girls who can stick up for themselves, even though I would come to her defense

    Mature

    Not ditsy
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    passive
    sweet
    laid back
    shy/confident - Either/Or
    low maintenance
    calm
    can stick up for themself
    mature/immature - Either/Or
    not ditsy


    I don't think people's opinions are going to vary too much on these characteristics though.
    Who would want a mean serious girlfriend?
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    i think i know what everyone will answer for this thread. my god
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    can be dominant at time
    sweeet
    not too laid back
    confident in a cute way
    if i like her i dont care what the maintanence is
    calm
    can stick up for herself
    mature
    not disty
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Guys, which of the following do you look for in a girl?

    eg. dominant, mean, laid back, shy, low maintenance, angry, mature, dipsy, cant stick up for themself.

    dominant - passive
    sweet - mean
    laid back - serious
    shy - confident
    high maintenance - low maintenance
    angry - calm
    can stick up for themself - cant stick up for themself
    mature - immature
    ditsy - not ditsy
    What is this, an application form? You missed out Date of Birth and Name...

    And ditzy is spelled with a 'Z.'
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    dominant - but wants to be taken care of
    sweet - rather than mean, clearly
    laid back - but can be serious when needed
    confident - but has her weak spots
    high maintenance - i like a challenge
    calm - no arguments over petty things
    can stick up for herself - but would let me do it if she felt she couldnt
    mature
    not ditsy
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    passive
    sweet (alters when she wants)
    laid back (alters it " " " ")
    inbetween shy and confident
    in between high and low
    in between angry and calm
    everything else inbetween
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Guys, which of the following do you look for in a girl?

    eg. dominant, mean, laid back, shy, low maintenance, angry, mature, dipsy, cant stick up for themself.

    dominant - passive
    sweet - mean
    laid back - serious
    shy - confident
    high maintenance - low maintenance
    angry - calm
    can stick up for themself - cant stick up for themself
    mature - immature
    ditsy - not ditsy
    Are you going to try and mould your personality to fit what the majority of boys on here say? Don't do it. You will never succeed, and if someone doesn't like who you really are there isn't much point being in a relationship with them.
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    (Original post by Abhead)
    Are you going to try and mould your personality to fit what the majority of boys on here say? Don't do it. You will never succeed, and if someone doesn't like who you really are there isn't much point being in a relationship with them.
    No of course not :-p
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No of course not :-p
    Good
    How come you are asking then? and why anon?
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    A brawler, preferably with no teeth, scar down one cheek.
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    (Original post by Abhead)
    Good
    How come you are asking then? and why anon?
    Oh i dunno, paranoia i guess. Being told im too much like something and not enough of something else, getting dumped. Wondered what men actually look for in women personality wise
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    Dominant - Because so am I = sparks.

    Sweet(ish) - I like doing cute, coupley things.

    Laid back/Serious - I don't think these are mutually exclusive

    Confident - Yes please.

    High Maintenance - I like to do things anyway - so if they're low maintenance then they get sick of me.

    Angry/Calm - Depends on the situation...

    Can stick up for themselves/Cant stick up for themselves - bit of both. I like to do the protective thing, but at the same time I don;t like to worry incessantly.

    Mature/Immature - again, both, depending on the situation...

    Ditsy/Not Ditsy - *sigh* Again, both
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Oh i dunno, paranoia i guess. Being told im too much like something and not enough of something else, getting dumped. Wondered what men actually look for in women personality wise
    Different men look for different things. So stop worrying bout what people want you to be, and be who you want to be.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Oh i dunno, paranoia i guess. Being told im too much like something and not enough of something else, getting dumped. Wondered what men actually look for in women personality wise
    Different men like different kinds of women, just like people get on with different people as friends. Don't let what your ex said worry you, you obviously just weren't compatible. I really doubt there is anything actually wrong' with you, unless you are some kind of sociopath or something :p:
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    A good cook
    good cleaner
    will iron my clothes well
    etc etc
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    (Original post by BurntDesire™)
    A good cook
    good cleaner
    will iron my clothes well
    etc etc
    :rofl:
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    One thing I don't get...what's with guys wanting 'cute' or 'sweet' girls all the time?! It's like they always want us to be naive and innocent...
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    (Original post by anisha.doshi)
    One thing I don't get...what's with guys wanting 'cute' or 'sweet' girls all the time?! It's like they always want us to be naive and innocent...
    Just because you're sweet and cute, doesn't mean you need to be naive and innocent...
 
 
 
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