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    ok so basically my man likes to lick me (quite a bit, like when making out blahblah) he finds it amusing & probably arousing cos im sure he's not trying to arouse me as hes seen my reaction to it LOL

    he also has a very weird fetish for my bellybutton which he likes to touch & poke and now recently lick YAY :woo:
    :rolleyes:

    anywho i would like to break it to him gently that i dont find it arousing it any sort of manner & i am slightly put off by it :eek:

    any advice? BTW im not trolling or whatever that is & i dont need irrevalnt comments about how weird he is or whatever because I DONT CARE
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    Maybe whilst you're both in the midst of it and he starts, just giggle and be all "oh I don't like that" - or alternatively move his head away everytime he tries, soon he'll get the answer ;D
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    i lick my gf quite a lot

    its not sexual, its just... fun? attention seeking? i dont know its just something to do a bit like tickling
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    In the end, if it's a fetish, it's not his fault and he can't suddenly stop having it, so don't be harsh.
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    (Original post by ozzyoscy)
    In the end, if it's a fetish, it's not his fault and he can't suddenly stop having it, so don't be harsh.
    To the person who neg repped me for being 'annoying' and calling me an "idiot", what is wrong with my post? I am correct in saying we do not choose our fetishes so it would be logical not to be harsh to this guy when telling him that you don't like what he's doing (if it is a fetish).

    Explanation?

    And in future it would probably be advisable to tell me via PM WHY you find me annoying so I can deduce whether you're just being an idiot or whether you have a valid point.
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    Is your boyfriend named Ben by any chance? :ninja:
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    (Original post by Sakura-Chan)
    Is your boyfriend named Ben by any chance? :ninja:
    lol nope
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    Thats hardly a hard core weird fetish...
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    (Original post by MagicNMedicine)
    Thats hardly a hard core weird fetish...
    i second that notion :P:
    how to tell him though :
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i second that notion :P:
    how to tell him though :
    oh right i just realised it said hardly now what i said previously makes no sense LOL :p:
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    That's pretty tame really. I think you're making a big deal out of nothing. But I suppose if you don't like it, just tell him.
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    just tell him it tickles too much and kills the mood
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    tell him to just focus the licking to your lower regions.

    :ninja:
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    (Original post by TheLouisVuittonDon)
    tell him to just focus the licking to your lower regions.

    :ninja:
    Haha, this :p:
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    (Original post by Sakura-Chan)
    Is your boyfriend named Ben by any chance? :ninja:
    No but mine is :p:
    oh but he doesn't lick me...
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    Whoever is spamming me with multiple, anonymous neg reps calling me an idiot needs to find something better to do with their time - Your rep is so little that it's neutral anyway and I was given a positive rep a day or two ago to counter-act your childish negs.
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    what do u mean by licking. if its while kissing then using tongues is fairly normal. as to the belly button i do that to my gf (not when being romantic) but just cos its fun, i have a very flat stomach and no feeling in my belly button at all. hers is very sensitive so when i play with it she laughs. (oh and it doesnt sound to me like its a fetish, a fetish is what gets u aroused. sounds like he just does it to be funny.)
 
 
 
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