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    Argh, can't even sleep!!

    This may be stupid but I need help.

    Well, my girlfriend of a few months has a longer list than me. No big deal right, shes 4 years older been with 8 guys before me, i'd been with 2 girls. To be honest it took sometime for me to just get over that (first relationship and all) but then she says she's only been active for 3 years and hadn't slept with anyone for a year and a half before me (been sleeping with her oct - present) so she done all 8 in one year!!
    I got over the number at first because i thought, hey she must have had a few relationships no big deal, but i'm her first boyfriend!!
    Just feels like she gave up the goods too easy and too often.
    I've made her feel like **** about it and i really hate doing that, but its killing me and I love her so don't wanna end the relationship.

    Any advice on how to get over this?
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    Why would it matter that she slept with a few guys (first year at uni?). If you think she's a **** and don't want to date a **** then get rid, if not what's your problem?
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    ^^ That exactly, She's with YOU now mate, so either accept it or dump her
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    Get over it. She's with you. Is the reason why you want to be with her really that tied in to how many people she's slept with?
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    8 people in a year is only one person every month and a half.

    If she wanted to go out and sleep with someone then so be it. I see no harm in that. As long as she's careful and got tested, anyway.

    Men do it, so why can't women?
 
 
 
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