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    Argh, can't even sleep!!

    This may be stupid but I need help.

    Well, my girlfriend of a few months has a longer list than me. No big deal right, shes 4 years older been with 8 guys before me, i'd been with 2 girls. To be honest it took sometime for me to just get over that (first relationship and all) but then she says she's only been active for 3 years and hadn't slept with anyone for a year and a half before me (been sleeping with her oct - present) so she done all 8 in one year!!
    I got over the number at first because i thought, hey she must have had a few relationships no big deal, but i'm her first boyfriend!!
    Just feels like she gave up the goods too easy and too often.
    I've made her feel like **** about it and i really hate doing that, but its killing me and I love her so don't wanna end the relationship.

    Any advice on how to get over this?

    Why would it matter that she slept with a few guys (first year at uni?). If you think she's a **** and don't want to date a **** then get rid, if not what's your problem?

    ^^ That exactly, She's with YOU now mate, so either accept it or dump her

    Get over it. She's with you. Is the reason why you want to be with her really that tied in to how many people she's slept with?

    8 people in a year is only one person every month and a half.

    If she wanted to go out and sleep with someone then so be it. I see no harm in that. As long as she's careful and got tested, anyway.

    Men do it, so why can't women?
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