Would you split up with your gf over this? STD?

How shall I approach it? And would you break up with someone over this?

Oh this sucks. I'm going to get checked out tomorrow at the Doctors. I don't know if I should mention it to him though or wait till I get my results?

I don't have any symtoms. I went to the doctors last week cos my urine was really cloudy but she said it was probably just down to a bad diet or not enough water. But I've just typed cloudy urine and syptoms of clamydia into google and it came up saying it was a symptom I've had none of the others though, like unusual discharge or burning or stinging etc.

If I were your boyfriend I'd give you hell for months though.

pleease keep anon.

Ok my ex has just rang and told me he cheated on me when we were together and now has clamydia and I need to get tested. I'm in a relationship with a new guy at the moment and if I have it, there's probably now a chance he has it.

He's the most amazing guy though and I feel sick to my stomach at the thought of him breaking up with me over it. Me and my ex were both clean when we went into the relationship so he obviously got it on the girl he cheated on me with so its not even my fault but still....I feel awful. I'm so worried I'm going to lose my new boyfriend.

How shall I approach it? And would you break up with someone over this?

Online diagnosis will always make you more paranoid.

How long will it take to get back your results? When I had this situ, I didn't tell any of my partners until I'd been checked and had the results back, as I didn't want to create any unnecessary fuss if it came back all clear. You're lucky that if you've caught it early, it's really easy to clear up for the both of you; it just needs a course of antibiotics.

Don't worry too much atm, just wait til you have your results back and then let people know if you need to

If I liked the girl probably not. Would be pretty pissed off though. Since he is in a relationship with you at the moment and I'm assuming there is no chance he would cheat on you wait till you get your results, and don't have sex with him (obv). If you do have it meet him in person and be honest.

Boy! don they have rubbers in Britain?

For women there is often no symptoms (i didn't have any, yes i've had an STD ) i had to tell my bf at the time and he was fine about it. If this guy breaks up with you then he's not worth the time of day. STDs can happen to anyone, you can still catch some when you use a condom and unfortunately in this day and age they are common but easily treatable. Bite the bullet, tell him there is a chance and get yourself tested ASAP. Good luck

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I know. I typed in normal symtoms and cloudy urine wasn't on there but when I typed cloudy urine with clamydia LOADS of things came up. Which is that whats making me worry.

I think it'll take about a week because that's how long they took last time.

Boy! don they have rubbers in Britain?

Oh this makes me feel better. Did you give it to him? How did you approach it with him?