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    Doesnt text you good morning or goodnight
    when hes annoyed at you, he doesnt say, he just wants space
    only has sex about once a week
    is out with friends every single night
    doesnt put kisses in texts
    can go a whole day without talking to you

    my ex was like that, and tbh, it made me crazy and i would always end up getting annoyed with him because it didnt seem like he cared about me or liked me much. we spent all saturday together most of the time and saw him for only about 15 mins a day.
    I ended up wanting to question him about how he felt about me. We broke up after a month because he couldnt deal with me being paranaoid and overanalysing things.

    I cant tell whether i expected too much from him and was just acting crazy and stupid or whether his actions really did show he didnt like me much.
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    I'm a male and we don't want to show that were clingy. So....
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    geez, and I thought it was GUYS who complained about having too little sex :confused:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Doesnt text you good morning or goodnight
    when hes annoyed at you, he doesnt say, he just wants space
    only has sex about once a week
    is out with friends every single night
    doesnt put kisses in texts
    can go a whole day without talking to you

    my ex was like that, and tbh, it made me crazy and i would always end up getting annoyed with him because it didnt seem like he cared about me or liked me much. we spent all saturday together most of the time and saw him for only about 15 mins a day.
    I ended up wanting to question him about how he felt about me. We broke up after a month because he couldnt deal with me being paranaoid and overanalysing things.

    I cant tell whether i expected too much from him and was just acting crazy and stupid or whether his actions really did show he didnt like me much.
    There you go.
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    Depends what his good points were. But tbh none of that list would bother me so much.
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    it was just that we had only been together a month and i thought couples are susposed to show they really lkike eachother and spend loads of time together at the beginning of a relationship
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Doesnt text you good morning or goodnight
    when hes annoyed at you, he doesnt say, he just wants space
    only has sex about once a week
    is out with friends every single night
    doesnt put kisses in texts
    can go a whole day without talking to you

    my ex was like that, and tbh, it made me crazy and i would always end up getting annoyed with him because it didnt seem like he cared about me or liked me much. we spent all saturday together most of the time and saw him for only about 15 mins a day.
    I ended up wanting to question him about how he felt about me. We broke up after a month because he couldnt deal with me being paranaoid and overanalysing things.

    I cant tell whether i expected too much from him and was just acting crazy and stupid or whether his actions really did show he didnt like me much.
    I really can't tell if this is serious :woo:
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    LOL I AM SUPPOSE TO TEXT EVERY MORNING TO SAY GOOD MORNING, LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL and PUT KISSES ON ALL TEXT's LoL!

    That's priceless right there, your boyfriend is going to break up with you very soon, count on it.
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    OP, do you watch a lot of Hollywood romance movies or something? You're been a little unrealistic with your expectations...
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    Clingy, much. You need to sort out your priorities.
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    I'd be annoyed at the second one, because if I was annoying him I'd want him to tell me so we could sort it out. The rest wouldn't really bother me.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Doesnt text you good morning or goodnight
    Do people really do this?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Doesnt text you good morning or goodnight
    when hes annoyed at you, he doesnt say, he just wants space
    only has sex about once a week
    is out with friends every single night
    doesnt put kisses in texts
    can go a whole day without talking to you
    -It's not a man's job to tell his girl good morning and good night, he's not her daddy.
    -He wants space when he's annoyed with her? Better than getting her head bitten off, don't you think?
    -Only has sex once a week... well, maybe a man's girl should be glad he's not trying to bone her every single night. Which can be rather annoying. Or maybe he actually likes her for more than just the sex? Oh shock horror!
    -He socialises. Nothing wrong with that, he had a life and friends before his girl and he's not going to drop either just for her.
    -No kisses in the text? Boo hoo. Get a grip.
    -Can handle not talking to his girl for a whole day? What kind of clingy cow wants a guy who can't handle talking to his girl just for one day?


    It's crap like this which makes men think girls are stupid, clingy, high maintenance and more bother than we are worth. It gives us a bad reputation and it REALLY PISSES ME OFF. :mad:
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    Doesnt text you good morning or goodnight-grow up
    when hes annoyed at you, he doesnt say, he just wants space-thats his choice
    only has sex about once a week-ask him
    is out with friends every single night-why dont you go?
    doesnt put kisses in texts-grow up
    can go a whole day without talking to you-are you bothering him?

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    That's men for you tbh :P Get used to it, cos i'm sure the next guy you date will have some of the same qualities. It's a guy thing I think.
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    Love is love. If he's not going to even commit to talk to you in a relationship, then you definitely should be annoyed.
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    Sounds like you're just clingy.
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    (Original post by Trigger)
    Doesnt text you good morning or goodnight-grow up
    when hes annoyed at you, he doesnt say, he just wants space-thats his choice
    only has sex about once a week-ask him
    is out with friends every single night-why dont you go?
    doesnt put kisses in texts-grow up
    can go a whole day without talking to you-are you bothering him?
    I think he had a lucky escape, I'd have felt smothered if it was me!
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    troll thread
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    (Original post by Perfect_Gent)
    I think he had a lucky escape, I'd have felt smothered if it was me!
    Yep, yet another girl ******** all over feminism. No wonder all the boys i meet are emotionally traumatised.
 
 
 
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