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    This is ridiculous. Enjoying casual sex does not make one a 'whore' - women are just as entitled to partake in casual exchanges as men, and yet men do not recieve condemnation because of it. :mad:
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    (Original post by J_Hunter)
    Is this an ad?
    Haha - when I saw the thread title, I genuinely wondered whether it was that escort agency back again
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    (Original post by Olivia_Lightbulb)
    This is ridiculous. Enjoying casual sex does not make one a 'whore' - women are just as entitled to partake in casual exchanges as men, and yet men do not recieve condemnation because of it. :mad:
    Sure, but you always your first one to be "special" in some way (if you're a girl anyway).
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Last November, i willingly consented to having sex with someone i barely knew at all. I told him i wasn't a virign but i really was. I know full well that i was going to get used by him, i knew he was a player but he was nice to me and i wanted to lose my virginity more than anything and i don't know why. Never been close to having sex apart from the time i actually did. But i've regretted it ever since and we've never spoken about it since then. Never even see him anymore.

    Just a rant
    PM me and we'll exchange msn's.
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    (Original post by Lefty Leo)
    Sure, but you always your first one to be "special" in some way (if you're a girl anyway).
    Do you? Isn't this just an unfounded generalisation? :wtf:
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    (Original post by J_Hunter)
    Is this an ad?
    Not a good one.
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    (Original post by jayman)
    whats your number?
    Jayman your red gems are disappearing.
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    (Original post by Colonel Brusnahan)
    Not a good one.
    Well i'm sold.
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    You had sex? ...With a boy?......what is this world coming to????
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    (Original post by Claire_Elizabeth)
    You had sex? ...With a boy?......what is this world coming to????
    The apocalypse :eek:
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    (Original post by jayman)
    whats your number?
    079420193847, you can call me whatever you like :mmm:
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    (Original post by Spanghew)
    The truth? By which you mean your outdated views? Because you've already acknowleged that what she did isn't bad by today's standards.

    Where did I say what she did isn't bad? I clearly said what she did was bad but it takes courage to admit our mistakes.[

    And no, it wasn't socially acceptable for women to have casual sex in the past, but then again they weren't allowed to vote or drive, so that doesn't really prove anything.
    Where did I say that women should not vote or drive? Did you actually read what I put?

    Casual sex is not degrading! It's not the same thing as rape!
    Yes it is degrading. Not as degrading as rape - again stop putting words into my mouth - degrading because instead of sex being an expression of love it becomes a selfish act where you USE [added emphasis here!!] the other person for your own pleasure - a form of mutual masterbation. Surely you can see this?

    If we are using other people for our own selfish needs then this links in with sociopathic behaviour. Sociopaths dont see human beings they see objects to be used and discarded. Should this behaviour really be encouraged?

    Casual sex is something that both sexes choose to do of their own free will (girls are allowed to make their own decisions nowadays), knowing exactly what they're getting themselves into.
    I dont doubt this - both the female and the male are ultimately being selfish in the act of casual sex. Again I link this with sociopathic behaviour and ask SHOULD THIS BE ENCOURAGED? Will you answer that question for me? However I must ask are girls actually aware of what they are getting into nowadays? Obviously from OPs post, the answer is NO. She was not ready the guilt from her act is still causing her problems even though she did it in November. The media are constantly feeding it to us that casual sex is OK and that virgins are some how undesirable. That is a lie and people are being manipulated - no they dont know all the options to make truely free choice - it is more peer pressure to conform. It is therefore only degrading, if you bizarely think that all females are incapable of choosing appropriate sexual partners for themselves, and must be protected from all the the mean, objectifying men out there. (On an unrelated note, I've done my fair share of lusting after women, so you don't need to describe it to me, thanks.)
    I have given other reasons for why it is degrading but you choose to ignore them and put words into my mouth again. I'am sure you have done your fair share of lusting - it is after all only natural.

    I'm going to ignore your evolutionary explanation of why it's a woman's job to stay in the cave and have babies, because if you can't see how society has moved on from that time, then I cba to argue with you.
    I never said that is the womans job to stay in the cave and have babies!? Where do you keep getting these quotes from? Certainly not me.
    Poor reply i'm afraid I was looking forward to better, answers in bold - in the quote. Please actually read my replies next time and stop putting words into my mouth!!!

    If we are going to have a proper REASONED debate without resorting to insults (thankfully you haven't done that yet) then can you reply to the post that I made before this one - read it - and reply like I have done (in the quote) to your post in a point by point manner so we can avoid putting words into my mouth that I have not said at all. I think the reason your reply was so poor was because you will find that the theory behind my answer is actually pretty flawless.
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    (Original post by Olivia_Lightbulb)
    Do you? Isn't this just an unfounded generalisation? :wtf:
    I'm not a girl :unsure:

    And sure, if it were to be special, it'd be great, but i'm not going to put in extra effort to make it special.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Last November, i willingly consented to having sex with someone i barely knew at all. I told him i wasn't a virign but i really was. I know full well that i was going to get used by him, i knew he was a player but he was nice to me and i wanted to lose my virginity more than anything and i don't know why. Never been close to having sex apart from the time i actually did. But i've regretted it ever since and we've never spoken about it since then. Never even see him anymore.

    Just a rant
    Did it happen on holiday?
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    (Original post by Cultivated)
    079420193847, you can call me whatever you like :mmm:
    you're not the OP :mad: :mad: :mad:

    is that a real number cause i was tempted to ring it lol
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    (Original post by jayman)
    you're not the OP :mad: :mad: :mad:

    is that a real number cause i was tempted to ring it lol
    A whore is a whore! Doesn't matter if it's OP's or my vagina you're entering, does it?
    It's OP's number. Go on, call her and pretend you've got some balls. :sad:
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    (Original post by jayman)
    whats your number?
    genius
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    (Original post by Cultivated)
    A whore is a whore! Doesn't matter if it's OP's or my vagina you're entering, does it?
    It's OP's number. Go on, call her and pretend you've got some balls. :sad:
    How you doin :cool:

    anyway i bet its one of your mates numbers or something. il call it when i top up
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    (Original post by jayman)
    How you doin :cool:

    anyway i bet its one of your mates numbers or something. il call it when i top up
    Aw, don't waste your £5 credit on dialling that number. I just made it up :sigh:
 
 
 
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