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    (Original post by SerpentineLara)
    To be seen as boyfriend material,
    all one needs is to be smoking hot. :awesome:
    Explains why I've been single for so bloody long then...:rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Deyesy)
    I do that and they're always put off. :|
    Don't jump in too quickly - I can see how that would be intimidating
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    Act like a ****, seems to work for a hell of alot of guys tbh
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    (Original post by mipegg)
    Act like a ****, seems to work for a hell of alot of guys tbh
    Thats not me though. I'd rather be liked for being myself instead of someone else.
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    (Original post by Deyesy)
    Thats not me though. I'd rather be liked for being myself instead of someone else.
    Oh trust me I know, but you asked and I gave you an answer! The 'bad' (****) guy seems to get girlfriends so much easier than nice guys, sucks I know
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    (Original post by mipegg)
    Oh trust me I know, but you asked and I gave you an answer! The 'bad' (****) guy seems to get girlfriends so much easier than nice guys, sucks I know
    I know that Girls always seem to go for that type and it's guys like me that they come to when they've been dumped or cheated on...
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    (Original post by Deyesy)
    I know that Girls always seem to go for that type and it's guys like me that they come to when they've been dumped or cheated on...
    Get close to them like that then!
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    (Original post by mipegg)
    Get close to them like that then!
    Tried and failed. Haha. Explains why they see me as friend doesn't it?
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    (Original post by Deyesy)
    Tried and failed. Haha. Explains why they see me as friend doesn't it?
    Then try harder next time! Get a bit closer, be leaned on that bit more then when their over that phase try talking to them about how you feel etc...
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    You are going to have to be mean- play hard to get for attention
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    look moody...not too moody but a lil moody...and look a lil rugged. Phsycologically (sp?), girls are naturally attracted because they assume you have more testosterone. *Scientifically proven*
    Psychologically.

    Funny; people just look at me and think I'm an irritable sod.
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    (Original post by Tootles)
    Psychologically.

    Funny; people just look at me and think I'm an irritable sod.
    you are! Joking from your profile pic where your in the car you look like the previous Apprentice winner Lee Mcqueen.
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    (Original post by mipegg)
    Then try harder next time! Get a bit closer, be leaned on that bit more then when their over that phase try talking to them about how you feel etc...
    Just wondering are you with someone?
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    (Original post by Deyesy)
    Just wondering are you with someone?
    Was, 2 1/2 year relationship (my only relationship) ended 3 months ago. Im only 17 mind you. On the look out for someone new though! With any luck it'll happen sooner or later
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    (Original post by mipegg)
    Was, 2 1/2 year relationship (my only relationship) ended 3 months ago. Im only 17 mind you. On the look out for someone new though! With any luck it'll happen sooner or later
    Thought you might have been with someone since your giving good advice Only 17 myself, soooo

    My relationship lasted like 4 weeks? Rather *****. Obviously wasn't meant to be

    Moving to an all girls school for year 13 though soooo :woo:
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    (Original post by Deyesy)
    Thought you might have been with someone since your giving good advice Only 17 myself, soooo

    My relationship lasted like 4 weeks? Rather *****. Obviously wasn't meant to be

    Moving to an all girls school for year 13 though soooo :woo:
    Some relationships are truely just 'not meant to be' but Im convinced most can work and make both parties very very happy if both parties put the effort in and dont give up!
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    (Original post by mipegg)
    Some relationships are truely just 'not meant to be' but Im convinced most can work and make both parties very very happy if both parties put the effort in and dont give up!
    Well she wants 'fun' and is coming over abit of a **** - HATE that word - lately. We weren't meant to be. She didn't give a crap about how I felt after she ended it and got with someone a day later.
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    (Original post by Oh Dear...)
    If your listening to music and she asks to listen to it, tell her no. Girls love guys that are mysterious.
    Oh yes.

    Once, this girl asked me for the time; I said no.

    We ended up going out.
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    (Original post by Edenr)
    Oh yes.

    Once, this girl asked me for the time; I said no.

    We ended up going out.
    This also works when girls ask you for food or medical attention.
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    (Original post by Deyesy)
    Well she wants 'fun' and is coming over abit of a **** - HATE that word - lately. We weren't meant to be. She didn't give a crap about how I felt after she ended it and got with someone a day later.
    I don't understand how girls can do that, dump someone then go out with another person a day later. She must have some great pulling power, but some girls can find a boyfriend easily and don't have to work at it.
 
 
 
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