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    Hey,

    (anon please )

    Here's my issue:

    I know that my boyf looks at porn (nothing hardcore, I don't think, just lots of pictures of naked women in various positions...), and does this every day pretty much, as long as I'm not there. He does it in the afternoons sometimes, and without fail every night if I am not sleeping over or he is at mine.

    It makes me a little uncomfortable, but I understand men have needs etc etc. However, I wondered what people's opinions were on whether or not it is something I should be worried about if he tells me that he thinks about this porn whilst we are doing stuff? Makes it seem like I am not giving him what he wants/he is just not turned on enough by sex with me. He does tend to have issues with not lasting very long AT ALL (ie. he finishes after about a minute inside me), I'm not sure if this is related or not.

    Any opinions welcome.
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    I don't have a problem with porn at all, as long as it doesn't make it's way into the bedroom e.g. watching it during sex, that's just weird. I highly doubt he's thinking of anyone else when you're having sex, don't worry If you're really that uncomfortable about it, ask him?

    You could ask him what he thinks about most during sex, but you might get the typical man reaction of total and utter panic :p: I've been told, on good authority, as soon as you ask a man a question like that, every suitable answer goes out of their heads and they panic, lol.

    As for coming too qiuckly, it could be nerves? I think you both could do with getting more comfortable with each other in the bedroom Just talk.
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    (Original post by Sakura-Chan)
    As for coming too qiuckly, it could be nerves? I think you both could do with getting more comfortable with each other in the bedroom Just talk.
    Sounds like he is comfortable enough. Maybe just doesnt have enough control yet.

    If you feel bad about the porn stuff then its an issue. Doesnt matter what other people think. If you are feeling second to it, speak with your boyfriend.
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    Haha thats clearly an ed bryne reference.

    Or however you spell it
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    ffs, men who are watching porn while in relationships on a causal basis are lame, if i was a women i'd be offended tbh..........
    he needs to up his game get abit more exciting.
    http://img13.imageshack.us/img13/900/warehouseone.jpg
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    (Original post by Respect4Acting)
    ffs, men who are watching porn while in relationships on a causal basis are lame, if i was a women i'd be offended tbh..........
    he needs to up his game get abit more exciting.
    I like to think I'm keeping the prostate cancer at bay.

    Also, maybe if he just masturbated earlier in the day, he would last longer for you?
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    (Original post by Sakura-Chan)
    e.g. watching it during sex, that's just weird.
    No it isn't. :lolwut:
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    tbh i feel guilty looking at other women on the street sometimes when i'm in a relationship let alone porn. But he might just be trying to drain his pipe, maybe if you drained it for him more often he wouldn't feel the need to do so
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    Lasts a minute...? If anything, he should be the one to worry, not you!
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    (Original post by Thatcher)
    I like to think I'm keeping the prostate cancer at bay.

    Also, maybe if he just masturbated earlier in the day, he would last longer for you?
    Masturbating right before would make him last longer wouldn't it?
 
 
 
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