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    Its been 3 months since me and my ex broke up, and she still wanted to be friends. I havent talked to her in like a month and want to see her. How do I go about asking her out without sounding like I want a date?
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    If you have mutual friends you could suggest a group outing?

    That way it's more like hanging out than sounding like a date.

    Hope this helps
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    Can you ask them out with you and your friends? To a pub or to see a gig or something. Somewhere were you can chat with friendly company so it doesn't seem overly intimate. If your ex doesn't know your friends that well, great!! You will have to stick with them and talk to them!
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    My advice would be to just say you just want to be friends but would love to meet up and do things together, as friends. Just tell it like it is.
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    Arrange to meet up with her and a few friends, that way it won't be like a date, just a friendly gathering.
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    I agree with danpr!

    I mean, even meeting for coffee to catch up doesn't have to be like a date, you'd do that with friends anyway
 
 
 
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