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Known him for years but then something happened... watch

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    Please keep as anon or delete as the guy goes on here sometimes.

    Basically i don't even know where to begin.

    I'm 19 and female and he's the same age. We've been friends for years. He has come and stayed with me a few days and last night we went out into town to have a few drinks and a laugh.
    I don't even know how it happened, but when we got back to mine we started kissing and other things but didn't have sex.
    I know what i was doing, but at the same time i didn't.
    I know this sounds really stupid but i just don't know what to do.
    I'm shook up about it.
    Right now he's asleep whilst i'm in the other room. What do i do or say?
    I have been thinking about him quite a lot recently and over the past year but i just didn't expect anything to happen like that last night.
    I'm pretty sure it probably won't happen again.
    I get that he was drunk and feeling horny...and i was there.
    But what do i do now? Do i bring it up or just forget it ever happened?
    It kind of felt right last night but i am just so confused.

    that's going to be a bit awkward when he wakes up hehe! but seriously, i'm not sure whether it's the kind of thing you can just ignore. it's always going to be a bit awkward. unless you talk about it and a) you two will realise it felt right and get together or something of the sort b) laugh it off c) agree not to talk of it again. I think it will go something like that. Maybe you should just wait till he wakes up and gage how it goes from there? Follow his lead unless you feel too awkward and need to talk about it?
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