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    I recently broke up with my 'boyfriend' after a 2 year difficult situation of being more than friends but less than a couple. Ive been unhappy for most of it, so i thought that ending it was long overdue and that it was the best thing for me.

    But now that i think about being single and not seeing him, it really breaks my heart. Everytime we talk i want to ask him to try again, even though i know i wont be happy, and he'll just take advantage of me. We've only been apart for a week and he's already slept with 2 other girls + me, and right after that he told me "we're not together anymore so dont take this the wrong way".

    I think the real problem is that I'm dont have the self confidence to feel like I'll be ok without him. I need him there to make me feel attractive and sexy and fun, and i know thats really sad and pathetic. Im starting uni in september so i want to use the summer to start getting over him, and to gain some confidence. But i have no idea where to start!
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    anyone??
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    Hang around with your friends.
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    Read a book about confidence?
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    I have a question for you. You must be attractive and sexy for you now ex boyfreind to like you, you are fine
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    Well obviously you need to focus on yourself this summer. Maybe joining a gym or picking up some sort of sport will help. It gives you something to accomplish on a regular basis and since you get more fit it should help with the confidence.
 
 
 
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