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    erm, u sound like a repressed emo...just embrace ur emo feelings!!
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    (Original post by Cupcakee)
    Not really, seriously people that mope around and feel sorry for themselves really piss me off. Look at the lives that others lead. I am not saying you don't have problems, everyone has troubles, but the message I get from your thread is..."I am feeling sorry for myself. Give sympathy." :woo:
    I already said I'm looking for solutions. Yours was just bad, it's like telling a depressed person to get over themselves.

    Yes, everybody has problems. But how do you know whether all problems are equal?

    If you can't seem to understand why that advice is bad, then well... it just means you don't have much empathy for other people. I may be sad but at least I understand that people can get into a negative state and be stuck in it.

    ITS not always for attention you know?
    Cheers for bumping me from a state of mopiness to one of agressiveness.

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    erm, u sound like a repressed emo...just embrace ur emo feelings!!
    Haha. That's actually kind of amusing.
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    If you want to avoid people as well as have company, find some more online friends; find some who like going on endlessly about the things you like to, and just talk to them for ages. Find some games to play or films to watch, and similar whatnots.
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    (Original post by Rafawozzy)
    "There's only so much friendships can offer"

    Presumably they offer more than just being alone all the time? From what I've read on here there's plenty of people going through situations similar to yours particularly during the summer holidays so the best thing I'd say is to actually go out and make the effort to make friends , yeah you may think it's hard work but in the long run it'll be better , you'll get more out of it , plus your current negative mindset can't be good for your health/personality either.


    Have you heard the song Lithium by Evanescence btw? :p:
    Good song!! :yep:
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    It's only easy for stupid people to be chirpy all the time. Find something you can put your time towards OP, you're probably just feeling as if you're lacking purpose more than anything else. At least that's what would get me down the most.
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    People thrust in and out of phases like this, especially during adolescence. It can get really bad but trust me the highs will come with the unforgiving lows.

    Write a story or narrative to channel your emotions in a productive way. It can be a great stress release.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)

    If you can't seem to understand why that advice is bad, then well... it just means you don't have much empathy for other people. I may be sad but at least I understand that people can get into a negative state and be stuck in it.

    ITS not always for attention you know?
    Cheers for bumping me from a state of mopiness to one of agressiveness.
    PEOPLE HAVE REAL ISSUES! AND I AM AWARE OF THAT ! I have empathy for people with problems ... people that always look out for other people and go through a rough patch for example ... YOU sound too wound up in yourself. Boo hoo.

    No problem babe.
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    (Original post by Cupcakee)
    PEOPLE HAVE REAL ISSUES! AND I AM AWARE OF THAT ! I have empathy for people with problems ... people that always look out for other people and go through a rough patch for example ... YOU sound too wound up in yourself. Boo hoo.

    No problem babe.
    1. Loads of people commit suicide.
    2. Many people commit suicide due to loneliness.
    3. People commiting suicide is a serious issue.
    4. But loneliness needn't be a major problem.


    What exactly is a real issue then? How about enlightening me?
    You made some major assumptions about me that I'm just going to have to call out your point.
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    Being sad seems glorious because music makes it so. When your genuinely depressed, alone and feeling even psychotically angry at what has happened to you then I can tell you, there is no glory it in at all.

    Go live your life.
 
 
 
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