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    Anon or delete plz, sensitive issue.

    I'm in my late teens, male and haven't masturbated at all in my life, not once. I like stroking it but when I try to masturbate, I always get scared of what's going to happen and if I won't like it, so I pull out of it. I'm afraid that when I get a proper girlfriend, she will think I am strange. I also have to skillfully weave out of conversations when masturbation is involved - simply because I've never done it.

    Two questions - is this a problem and should I be scared of doing it?
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    Masturbation is not a common topic of discussion when meeting girls OP

    It's not a problem, just a bit weird, also don't expect to last particularly long during sex
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    I thinks I've seen this before
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    don't be scared of doing it, it feels amazing (or so i've heard :ninja:) just be prepared with lots of tissues.
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    Masturbation is generally over rated.
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    If you're scared about what'll happen if you masturbate.......I don't know how you'll cope if you find yourself without condoms some fateful night.

    Oh and

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    Just think about the ***shot at the end of that lol!!!! :P
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    OP you still have the opportunity to have the first ****, which is definitely one of the best ones. Also i doubt any prospective girlfriend is going to quiz you on your masturbation habits. If you do get a girlfriend however, will you be able to bring yourself to have sex with her, considering you can't even masturbate ?
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    The OP isn't the only one who hasn't masturbated before. It's not uncommon, pretty normal.
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    (Original post by Deano88)
    OP you still have the opportunity to have the first ****, which is definitely one of the best ones. Also i doubt any prospective girlfriend is going to quiz you on your masturbation habits. If you do get a girlfriend however, will you be able to bring yourself to have sex with her, considering you can't even masturbate ?
    What is the first **** like? Does it feel strange?
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    (Original post by Advanced Subsidiary)
    It's not uncommon, pretty normal.
    No it isn't. While I don't claim know everyones masterbation patterns, to say not relieving sexual urges by the late teens is 'pretty normal' is wrong.

    What are you afraid of happening OP?
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    Jesus man your testicles might explode!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What is the first **** like? Does it feel strange?
    LOL, i don't really remember it properly it was a while back now. Probably could be described as strange, but in a good way.

    But seriously just get on with it, i have no idea what your afraid of.
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    (Original post by SensiDub)
    No it isn't. While I don't claim know everyones masterbation patterns, to say not relieving sexual urges by the late teens is 'pretty normal' is wrong.

    What are you afraid of happening OP?
    I'm afraid I won't like the feeling you get when it all happens.
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    I feel for your prostate gland...
    Regular masturbation gets rid of carcinogens that build up in the glands.
    I suggest you go away and have a good ****.
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    It's not a problem, and no you shouldn't be scared; everyone does it it's natural, you should just do a step at a time if you're scared; like start slowly and then go faster and if you don't like it, you simply don't have to! No-one's telling you to masturbate if you don't want to do it you don't have to If you like it whilst you're do it slow, then just do that. Nothing has to happen! Even if it did it's only normal, i think you know what i mean.

    OP you're not strange!
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    it's not really a bad thing but i warn you now you're gonna spunk after about 5 seconds of sex
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm afraid I won't like the feeling you get when it all happens.
    Please just go and do it... tonight! I don't know anyone who doesn't like the feel of an orgasm :rolleyes:

    If you're having sex/doing whatever with a girl, are you gunna stop when it starts feeling really good and go 'oh I'm scared of what might happen next, can we stop?'

    Please try it out, then let us know what you thought :p:
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    (Original post by diamondsky99)
    Please just go and do it... tonight! I don't know anyone who doesn't like the feel of an orgasm :rolleyes:

    If you're having sex/doing whatever with a girl, are you gunna stop when it starts feeling really good and go 'oh I'm scared of what might happen next, can we stop?'

    Please try it out, then let us know what you thought :p:
    When you're with a girl, at least you have someone there to reassure you and experience it with you.

    Masturbation is just on my own.
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    have you tried different technquies?
    looking at porn?

    Some people aren't a big fan of hand jobs (at least at first) and prefer to kind of, rub themselves against the bed.
    Some people like to lube up so on so frth.
 
 
 
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