Oh god. I'm going to have to use numbers as well. Here goes:
1) No, narrowing it down to people like OP isn't ludicrious. As you will notice, most love problems concern partners that cheat, people that are being unfaithful, etc. This girl is encouraging a man to be unfaithful to his girfriend, ultimately by putting out and making it seem to him as though she's the innocent one. Not to say that it isn't his fault either: it's both their fault.
2) Sentence in bolt: absolute ********, doesn't even make sense.