im dating a guy whos got a girlfriend, but i want to lose my virginity to him!

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james_dow

and you know her how ? alot arn't

she is obviously retarded and is perfect for manipulatory purposes.

And that gives him reason to sleep with her while he still has a girlfriend?
She may be a retard (you're not m'lovely) but he is a prick.

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indiecindie

MNBStyle

Thats not big headed at all :-) you clearly have confidence in the way you look

Any guy whos all over you when you only known him about 5 minutes is only after one thing

I know its frustrating when your ready but you cant find the right guy, but trust me in time you will theres no rush :-)
A goodlooking and lovely sounding girl like you will find a decent guy but the more desperate you get the easier it will be to fall into the hands of a guy who wants one thing and i know deep down you dont want that

sometimes i sit here and think OMG any one would actually do, and other times i think how i have waited now, i might aswell wait a bit longer for something really special! eee whre are all the nice guys these days!
definately not in manchester!

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Melting Sugar.

Attention seeker.. :yawn:

If this problem was genuinely not to be attention seeking you would have cut to the chase and said the question in your OP in the title removing all the rubbish about that he has a girlfriend etc.

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indiecindie

james_dow

because I stalk your facebook and follow you :teeth:

hahaha

eee this has entertained me tonight.

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indiecindie

Melting Sugar.

Attention seeker.. :yawn:

If this problem was genuinely not to be attention seeking you would have cut to the chase and said the question in your OP in the title removing all the rubbish about that he has a girlfriend etc.

yeah but him having a girlfriend was sort of key to the thing was it not ?
:s-smilie:

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james_dow

pinkspiders

And that gives him reason to sleep with her while he still has a girlfriend?
She may be a retard (you're not m'lovely) but he is a prick.

sux to be his girlfriend amiryte, ( I am btw)

never said he wasnt a dick, he most certainly is, but that doesnt disaude me from the belief that she is retarded (which you are m'lovely).

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MNBStyle

indiecindie

And its thinking anyone will do that will cause problems, you dont want that if you wait for a decent genuine guy who your in a relationship with youll be glad you waited, but if you need to talk more PM me xx

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james_dow

indiecindie

hahaha

eee this has entertained me tonight.

and now you sit their and ask yourself does he really, has he found my name through my IP.

dun dun dun.

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Melting Sugar.

indiecindie

yeah but him having a girlfriend was sort of key to the thing was it not ?
:s-smilie:

That may be, but it's quite a private thing that you wouldn't really want to share on the internet or if you did then as little as possible.

Although I scrap what I wrote in my post because you actually bothered to reply :smile:

OT: At the end of the day, you don't want to look back in 5 years time and regret what you chose to do with this guy. Do you really want to be the "other girl"? If your boyfriend was doing this with some other girl how would you feel? I'm not saying "your first time should be special" because fair enough, to you sex might not be that big a deal (even if you are a virgin) but you don't want to have any regrets or look back and see yourself as someone you don't want to be.

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indiecindie

james_dow

sux to be his girlfriend amiryte, ( I am btw)

never said he wasnt a dick, he most certainly is, but that doesnt disaude me from the belief that she is retarded (which you are m'lovely).

i am not retarded. i just misjudged the situation, got a bit carried away.
yeah it does suck to be his girlfriend, but one of those things, i didn't knw at fiirst, he came onto me, he texts me all the time not the other way aroundd so...

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Fydwraig

How would you feel if your boyfriend slept with another girl, you'd feel like S*** dont be such a S*** and steal someone elses boyfriend, and then maybe if she finds out she might kick the S*** into you

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james_dow

indiecindie

Im not 100% serious with the retard thing.

but the added fact your a virgin just screams to me it would be a bad move you would regret.

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indiecindie

Melting Sugar.

i wanted to get people's opinions, and i have.
i have changed what i was going to and am now happy with my descision, i was just being stupid and pathetic and desperate, because i can just imagine i have given him what he wants so what is the need in me anymore? he would just ignore me and cut me out and after i had given him my virginity i wuld just feel like a complete tosser. im glad i came on here first now, because i was sure this is what i wanted to do!

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indiecindie

JessicaLouisaBond

you annoy me.

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Fydwraig

Thanks but im taken lmao, if i was his gf id kick the S*** into you selfish cow

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Fydwraig

Well its good you changed your mind its not a big deal being a virgin

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Rooster523

JessicaLouisaBond

Thanks but im taken lmao, if i was his gf id kick the S*** into you selfish cow

feisty one you are :wink:

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MNBStyle

JessicaLouisaBond

Thanks but im taken lmao, if i was his gf id kick the S*** into you selfish cow

Wow so much anger lol, thats abit harsh dont you think??

She made a mistake but saw sense before it went to far surely thats a good thing? if she was still acting like she dont give a **** i would agree with you