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im dating a guy whos got a girlfriend, but i want to lose my virginity to him! watch

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    (Original post by james_dow)
    and you know her how ? alot arn't

    she is obviously retarded and is perfect for manipulatory purposes.
    although in all fairness, I'd manipulate that
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    (Original post by james_dow)
    and you know her how ? alot arn't

    she is obviously retarded and is perfect for manipulatory purposes.
    and you know me how?
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    (Original post by indiecindie)
    i don't consider myself as drop dead gorgeous, but i do see myself as good looking, i know that seems big headed im really not, but it just irritates me sometimes that i can't find anyone, i don't have trouble pulling, it's just the commitment and relationship aspect. thats why i have never slept with anybody, i just feel ready now and wish i could find someone. i thought that he was using me and i was using him,, but i would be totally devastated if he never spoke to me again afterwards, and he clearly wouldn't because he would of got what he wanted, thanks for your help though x
    Thats not big headed at all :-) you clearly have confidence in the way you look

    Any guy whos all over you when you only known him about 5 minutes is only after one thing

    I know its frustrating when your ready but you cant find the right guy, but trust me in time you will theres no rush :-)
    A goodlooking and lovely sounding girl like you will find a decent guy but the more desperate you get the easier it will be to fall into the hands of a guy who wants one thing and i know deep down you dont want that
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    (Original post by there's too much love)
    although in all fairness, I'd manipulate that

    i'll let you know im not a "that"! hahah
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    (Original post by indiecindie)
    and you know me how?
    because I stalk your facebook and follow you :teeth:
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    (Original post by indiecindie)
    like i have said in previous posts, ive changed my mind. i thought it was what i wanted and it's not. i've waited this long, i might as well wait a bit longer for something special.
    so i won't be annoying you in a few weeks! haa
    Good decision. Trust me it's worth the wait, although I'm not one to talk because I didn't :rolleyes: ...but having sex with let alone losing virginity to a guy you barely know and is already comitted to another girl isn't right. You'll be glad one day when you do lose it and recieve the same love, devotion and admiration in return during the momentous occasion that is sex
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    (Original post by james_dow)
    and you know her how ? alot arn't

    she is obviously retarded and is perfect for manipulatory purposes.
    And that gives him reason to sleep with her while he still has a girlfriend?
    She may be a retard (you're not m'lovely) but he is a prick.
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    (Original post by MNBStyle)
    Thats not big headed at all :-) you clearly have confidence in the way you look

    Any guy whos all over you when you only known him about 5 minutes is only after one thing

    I know its frustrating when your ready but you cant find the right guy, but trust me in time you will theres no rush :-)
    A goodlooking and lovely sounding girl like you will find a decent guy but the more desperate you get the easier it will be to fall into the hands of a guy who wants one thing and i know deep down you dont want that

    sometimes i sit here and think OMG any one would actually do, and other times i think how i have waited now, i might aswell wait a bit longer for something really special! eee whre are all the nice guys these days!
    definately not in manchester!
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    Attention seeker.. :yawn:

    If this problem was genuinely not to be attention seeking you would have cut to the chase and said the question in your OP in the title removing all the rubbish about that he has a girlfriend etc.
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    (Original post by james_dow)
    because I stalk your facebook and follow you :teeth:
    hahaha
    eee this has entertained me tonight.
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    (Original post by Melting Sugar.)
    Attention seeker.. :yawn:

    If this problem was genuinely not to be attention seeking you would have cut to the chase and said the question in your OP in the title removing all the rubbish about that he has a girlfriend etc.
    yeah but him having a girlfriend was sort of key to the thing was it not ?
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    (Original post by pinkspiders)
    And that gives him reason to sleep with her while he still has a girlfriend?
    She may be a retard (you're not m'lovely) but he is a prick.
    sux to be his girlfriend amiryte, ( I am btw)


    never said he wasnt a ****, he most certainly is, but that doesnt disaude me from the belief that she is retarded (which you are m'lovely).
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    (Original post by indiecindie)
    sometimes i sit here and think OMG any one would actually do, and other times i think how i have waited now, i might aswell wait a bit longer for something really special! eee whre are all the nice guys these days!
    definitely not in manchester!
    And its thinking anyone will do that will cause problems, you dont want that if you wait for a decent genuine guy who your in a relationship with youll be glad you waited, but if you need to talk more PM me xx
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    (Original post by indiecindie)
    hahaha
    eee this has entertained me tonight.

    and now you sit their and ask yourself does he really, has he found my name through my IP.



    dun dun dun.
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    (Original post by indiecindie)
    yeah but him having a girlfriend was sort of key to the thing was it not ?
    That may be, but it's quite a private thing that you wouldn't really want to share on the internet or if you did then as little as possible.

    Although I scrap what I wrote in my post because you actually bothered to reply

    OT: At the end of the day, you don't want to look back in 5 years time and regret what you chose to do with this guy. Do you really want to be the "other girl"? If your boyfriend was doing this with some other girl how would you feel? I'm not saying "your first time should be special" because fair enough, to you sex might not be that big a deal (even if you are a virgin) but you don't want to have any regrets or look back and see yourself as someone you don't want to be.
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    (Original post by james_dow)
    sux to be his girlfriend amiryte, ( I am btw)


    never said he wasnt a ****, he most certainly is, but that doesnt disaude me from the belief that she is retarded (which you are m'lovely).

    i am not retarded. i just misjudged the situation, got a bit carried away.
    yeah it does suck to be his girlfriend, but one of those things, i didn't knw at fiirst, he came onto me, he texts me all the time not the other way aroundd so...
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    How would you feel if your boyfriend slept with another girl, you'd feel like S*** dont be such a S*** and steal someone elses boyfriend, and then maybe if she finds out she might kick the S*** into you
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    (Original post by indiecindie)
    i am not retarded. i just misjudged the situation, got a bit carried away.
    yeah it does suck to be his girlfriend, but one of those things, i didn't knw at fiirst, he came onto me, he texts me all the time not the other way aroundd so...
    Im not 100% serious with the retard thing.

    but the added fact your a virgin just screams to me it would be a bad move you would regret.
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    (Original post by JessicaLouisaBond)
    How would you feel if your boyfriend slept with another girl, you'd feel like S*** dont be such a S*** and steal someone elses boyfriend, and then maybe if she finds out she might kick the S*** into you
    brilliant contribution to the thread, we should date

    indiecindie, wanna **** ?
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    (Original post by Melting Sugar.)
    That may be, but it's quite a private thing that you wouldn't really want to share on the internet or if you did then as little as possible.

    Although I scrap what I wrote in my post because you actually bothered to reply

    OT: At the end of the day, you don't want to look back in 5 years time and regret what you chose to do with this guy. Do you really want to be the "other girl"? If your boyfriend was doing this with some other girl how would you feel? I'm not saying "your first time should be special" because fair enough, to you sex might not be that big a deal (even if you are a virgin) but you don't want to have any regrets or look back and see yourself as someone you don't want to be.

    i wanted to get people's opinions, and i have.
    i have changed what i was going to and am now happy with my descision, i was just being stupid and pathetic and desperate, because i can just imagine i have given him what he wants so what is the need in me anymore? he would just ignore me and cut me out and after i had given him my virginity i wuld just feel like a complete tosser. im glad i came on here first now, because i was sure this is what i wanted to do!
 
 
 
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