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I love him to bits, but he's about to leave Watch

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    Anon because he used to use tsr (is how we met..)

    Basically we dated for 3months, broke up but remained very close friends. When he broke up with his last ex a couple of months ago, we became even closer (as close as technology will allow, we live 4hours away) So much so that we seemed to come to a mutual agreement that when we met up again we would have sex, (for the emotion not just the physicality)

    The thing is, he's going abroad for a year, beginning the middle of august, and I have next to no money with no job so have been concentrating on getting a job. I said I was going to come down to him the week after next, but he said that may be too late, considering he also has work..I will be distraught if I don't get to see him, I really will. He is the only person I think about romantically, and I've told him I love him (but as a friend) - he says the same.

    I don't know what to do, I'm going to miss him so much
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    you havent asked a question, i don't understand what you want as an answer? oh that sucks?
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    Dear Love Him As A Friend,

    So, do you mean you're not his girlfriend, but are 'close friends' who slept together for 'emotion'...?
    I think you should get on with your life, get a job, earn some money. He obviously doesn't know you love him and he doesn't seem to like you in that way. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but if he loved you he'd find the time or make some other arrangement.

    Correct me if I'm wrong.
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    Am trying to do three things at once sorry.

    I was meant to go on to ask whether I should really be feeling as strong about him if he's going away for a year..

    And 'she_said' I see where you're coming from. We haven't slept together yet, we've just said how right it would feel though...And its not just him, I've been incredibly wrapped up in my jobhunting recently, I could have taken time out
 
 
 
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