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    (Original post by manx1991)
    Mine found one under my bed, in a drawer, dunno what she was doing under there but she came in one night like 'right, I know it's not for you but can I borrow that test for my friend'... riggght

    Hahaha cool mom.... Mine had the "talk" with my ex, she asked him what would he do if I were pregnant. :rolleyes: And I wasn't even pregnant to begin with.
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    im pretty sure they are aware as i have been with my bf 2 1/2 years and he has been staying over since we had been together 3 months! and i am 21 so yeh i think they know!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Whats worse is when they think you are having sex with your gf and offering to buy you condoms to use; when you arent. True story.
    haha american pie.

    Anyway, I'm 22, bf's 23. We've been together a year and a half. we still get put in saperate rooms when we stay at each others. My dad warned me to "behave myself" when i went to visit my bf, i was 21 bck then... I'm not sure if they think we're having sex but i think it's best to just leave it the way it is now. It's hard when you're the eldest.
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    You want to know how my mother found out I was having sex?



    Had a miscarriage in front of her.



    Kind of a conversation killer, that.
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    I think my Mam knows. The bag off Anne Summers underwear and the pill next to my bed might be a giveaway. Now whenever i have as much as a twinge in my stomach she panicks that i'm pregnant. As for my Dad, i told him i was moving in with my boyfriend this September and he said it was ok as long as there was no pitter patter of tiny feet... So i think, yes, they do know.
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    Yeah my parents know. I didnt tell them or anything I think they just knew really. They seemed alright about (I was 16) my Mum said she wished I had waited a little longer... So its a good job she doesnt know I really lost my virginity the year before lol. Im not allowed boyfriends to stay in my room but they said that wasnt the whole sex thing they just didnt want me to bring every guy I was seeing/going out with back to my house. Which is fair enought it is their house after all. Ive only had 1 serious boyfriend so far so its been alright.
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    mine practically know the day i lost it, and my sex life has been rather obvious after 2UTIs and a pregnancy scare. my parents went over every tiny detil of sex after the scare, so embarassing!
    my bfs parnets ifgured it out aswell, but no one is bothered
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    (Original post by .x.jen.x.)
    Yeah of course, the guest room i sleep in with my bf is next to their room...so even if i'd never mentioned it i am quite sure they would have heard
    And this doesn't bother you?! I'd be mortified if I thought my parents could hear me and my boyfriend having sex!

    On-topic, I've had two boyfriends - one from 16 - 17 and this one since I was 17 (I'm eighteen now). Pretty sure they think I lost it with my current boyfriend, when in fact I lost it three weeks into the first one... but meh they're cool with it now. Not that they could do much about it.
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    (Original post by rose_uni08)
    I think my Mam knows. The bag off Anne Summers underwear and the pill next to my bed might be a giveaway. Now whenever i have as much as a twinge in my stomach she panicks that i'm pregnant. As for my Dad, i told him i was moving in with my boyfriend this September and he said it was ok as long as there was no pitter patter of tiny feet... So i think, yes, they do know.
    Ha tell me about it. My periods have been a bit irregular due to my pill to the effect that I basically had a 2 week long one. My mum noticed this (must have seen disappearing tampons) and enquired... I said "Oh I missed a pill and I always come on if I do that" and she practically screeched "You can't MISS them!!!" Made me laugh a lot, as if we don't use condoms as well!
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    (Original post by OrdinaryDay)
    And this doesn't bother you?! I'd be mortified if I thought my parents could hear me and my boyfriend having sex!

    On-topic, I've had two boyfriends - one from 16 - 17 and this one since I was 17 (I'm eighteen now). Pretty sure they think I lost it with my current boyfriend, when in fact I lost it three weeks into the first one... but meh they're cool with it now. Not that they could do much about it.

    Why would i be "mortified"? I'm 21, have been with my boyfriend 3 years, and it's obvious we'd be sleeping together, unless we were strict christians/asexual/abnormal, whatever...I don't make a point of having extremely loud sex with him, but there can be unavoidable bed creaks at times which can't always be silenced. We try to be quiet but it's not always possible :dontknow:

    My parents are cool with us sleeping together, and i'm sure they wouldn't want to prevent us sleeping together all because of a few creaks which they may be able to hear occasionally.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im 19 and having sex with my boyfriend. I always have to lie when I spend the night with him as I know my parents would:

    1) Be completely horrified by the idea.
    2) get all over protective and suspicious when I go anywhere just incase I'm going to have sex.
    3) Continuously lecture me about how bad it is, as we have not been together that long.

    How are everyone else's parents..... I have been with my boyfriend six months.
    I am in exactly the same situation ( and I am also 19! )
    While being at uni I am already onto my second boyfriend (6 months so far) and my parents don't know about neither my ex nor my current bf
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    I hope not, and if not,, i'll let her assume i've a virgin till i have a wife thats pregnant
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    Yes, but tbh I think they thought i was having sex a while before i actually was. I dont mind that they know, I'm a responsible adult, and I'm not doing anything bad, most of the time
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    i have a very "liberal" family when it comes to sex. as long as im protected and dont act like a despirate slapper they dont care.

    my mums tried giving me sex tips which i didnt pay attention to tbh

    my nan was like. fine sleep with them, date them, just dont marry them. your too young to commit so just enjoy yourself. then she went on to say that in her day it was the miniskirt era and how much fun the 60's were. .somethings i wish i just shoved headphones in but oh well nice to know they approve!

    also when i was with my bf of nrly 2 years my family were saying, you've been with him abit long now, dont u wanna dump him and enjoy the single life.

    niiice
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    (Original post by .x.jen.x.)
    Why would i be "mortified"? I'm 21, have been with my boyfriend 3 years, and it's obvious we'd be sleeping together, unless we were strict christians/asexual/abnormal, whatever...I don't make a point of having extremely loud sex with him, but there can be unavoidable bed creaks at times which can't always be silenced. We try to be quiet but it's not always possible :dontknow:

    My parents are cool with us sleeping together, and i'm sure they wouldn't want to prevent us sleeping together all because of a few creaks which they may be able to hear occasionally.
    I'd be embarrassed because being cool with you sleeping together is hardly synonymous with being cool with hearing it. I wouldn't expect to hear my parents having sex when I'm around - it's not appropriate - and as such I would never have sex when I thought they could hear. They are fine with the concept - as I am fine with the concept of their having an active sex life - but this does not mean both of us wish to keep a distance from said sex life!
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    Mine know ive been having sex for a while.

    Worst thing is when i had my Ex over for a weekend and at the time she wasnt on the pill yet, i literally left a carrier bag of used condoms tied up in the room by mistake and my mum found it lol.

    VERY EMBARRASING INDEED!!! lol
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    m parents think im a slut with a drinking problem with a 50%chance to be into drugs, so yess (thogh i never confirmed it to them ...)
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    (Original post by OrdinaryDay)
    I'd be embarrassed because being cool with you sleeping together is hardly synonymous with being cool with hearing it. I wouldn't expect to hear my parents having sex when I'm around - it's not appropriate - and as such I would never have sex when I thought they could hear. They are fine with the concept - as I am fine with the concept of their having an active sex life - but this does not mean both of us wish to keep a distance from said sex life!

    Well, as I said previously, we don't make a point of it....but if they were to hear accidentally it really wouldn't be the end of the world. I don't treat my parent's house like a brothel, nor do they, but you know, we're all mature enough to put up with a tiny bit of noise on rare occasions
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    Yeah, I'm in a long term relationship though.
    My dad once found my pills for my boyfriend to drop off at work when I had forgotten to take one.
    The first time my mum knew for definite was when I was about 17 and I was poorly and kept being sick in the morning and she made me take a pregnancy test.
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    My mother just assumed a few years ago, but i've never actually admitted to it - or to dating anyone... i just like to keep my life private... and as for my dad, i think he can't get over the thought of me being anything but his little girl lol
 
 
 
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