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    Say if you want a relationship with a girl and she shows interest in you does it put you off a bit as opposed to her being a little hard to get? I just find that if a girl plays hard to get I want her more than if she is totally willing:confused: I shouldn't be like this I know its a bad thing really but are most of you guys secretly like this?
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    No. If she plays hard to get **** that. Mind games are for losers.
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    I agree with ToastyCoke, I cant be bothered with playing hard to get, if they like me I'd appreciate it if they made it easier.
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    It's quite subconciously done, but psychologically proven, yes. If a woman doesn't instantly show affection, subconciously it is noted that she isn't someone who would put-out easily - if the man is thinking more along the lines of sex, then, as demonstrated in this thread, they can't be bothered with someone who doesn't cosy up to them immediately.

    The same way that women are more attracted to men if they disagree strongly to everything they say in the first part of a conversation, and then suddenly open up and start to agree with them. It makes them think that the man is able to hold up his own opinions and is strong-minded.
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    If they like me , I'd rather them just be straight up and honest , I don't have time for games/stupidness.
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    Just f#ck em all.... Tastes nice..
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    i she plays hard to get i usually lose interest. i cant be assed with that bs
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    Playing hard to get is a little exciting..
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    Protip: Don't play hard to get, ever.
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    yes, no one wants their hunt dished up to them on a silver platter, they like to hunt it down.
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    playing hard to get is too much effort. i'm out.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Say if you want a relationship with a girl and she shows interest in you does it put you off a bit as opposed to her being a little hard to get? I just find that if a girl plays hard to get I want her more than if she is totally willing:confused: I shouldn't be like this I know its a bad thing really but are most of you guys secretly like this?
    Girls are all worth the same. What difference does it make which one you settle for?
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    (Original post by ToastyCoke)
    No. If she plays hard to get **** that. Mind games are for losers.
    Takes one to know one jk

    I think I know what you mean, OP, but at least you know that when a girl likes you she's with you for the right reasons, and not because she feels like she should be.
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    it all depends on the girl really,
    if shes worth the effort, i wd play that game

    but if shes not worth it, and plays hard to get, i wd look for another girl
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    I can see your point, It's nice to have a challenge every now and again but generally I don't like too much 'playing hard to get'.
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    I think a lot of you guys are speaking out of anger at the thought of a girl messing with your mind it is annoying yes but if you really liked a girl wouldn't it keep you on your toes?

    Im not even suggesting that the girl does it on purpose maybe she simply can't make her mind up whether or not she wants to be with you and you sort of have to win her over.
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    playing hard to get puts me straight off

    you want to play childish mind games you can go do them on someone whos not me
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    i prefer lassies being more open and forward about how they feel
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    I don't mind them playing hard to get.

    What I hate is when they start b*tching to their friends about me being desperate and getting played. If they do that for any length of time, I'm put off straight away :yes:
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    (Original post by ToastyCoke)
    No. If she plays hard to get **** that. Mind games are for losers.
    I agree
 
 
 
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