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    Be yourself, but if being yourself means being an arse, don't do that.

    Maybe that's your problem sweetheart (Just kidding, well... I might be :ninja:)
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    (Original post by Keraroboli Roko Rosae)
    So I am entitled to be depressed.
    Yes you have the right to be depressed, but you also have the power to change things that relate to you. Being depressed isn't a choice, but it doesn't mean that you're doomed either.
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    (Original post by Sakura-Chan)
    Be yourself, but if being yourself means being an arse, don't do that.

    Maybe that's your problem sweetheart (Just kidding, well... I might be :ninja:)
    Let's be frickin honest ok?

    Being myself means being the idiot looser I am. The village idiot. Who laughs for everything. Who is funny all the time. No good-looking girl would date some idiot like me.

    ****, I'm crying.
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    (Original post by Keraroboli Roko Rosae)
    Let's be frickin honest ok?

    Being myself means being the idiot looser I am. The village idiot. Who laughs for everything. Who is funny all the time. No good-looking girl would date some idiot like me.

    ****, I'm crying.
    Cheer up mate, I'm sure loads of girls will go for someone sensitive like you.
    Besides, are looks really important to you? If they are, perhaps you need to rearrange your priorities a bit.
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    (Original post by Keraroboli Roko Rosae)
    Let's be frickin honest ok?

    Being myself means being the idiot looser I am. The village idiot. Who laughs for everything. Who is funny all the time. No good-looking girl would date some idiot like me.

    ****, I'm crying.
    maybe self-pity and a lack of confidence are your problems.
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    (Original post by rajandkwameali)
    maybe self-pity and a lack of confidence are your problems.
    Bravo, Mr Obvious! :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Eva2)
    Cheer up mate, I'm sure loads of girls will go for someone sensitive like you.
    Besides, are looks really important to you? If they are, perhaps you need to rearrange your priorities a bit.
    What do you mean by this?

    Yes, looks are very important to me. I like the instrinsic value of aesthetic beauty.
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    (Original post by Keraroboli Roko Rosae)
    What do you mean by this?

    Yes, looks are very important to me. I like the instrinsic value of aesthetic beauty.
    Then maybe thats a problem you might consider thinking about. Looks aren't the only things that matter in a relationship.
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    (Original post by Eva2)
    Then maybe thats a problem you might consider thinking about. Looks aren't the only things that matter in a relationship.
    So basically you're saying that I have to appease my preferences just because I am ugly.

    Which means that I will get only girls who are not as attractive as I wished, but learn to like them nevertheless.

    I hate second prizes and compromises.

    Why do hot guys not have to do it?
    DAMNIT
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    (Original post by Eva2)
    Bravo, Mr Obvious! :rolleyes:
    what?
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    (Original post by Keraroboli Roko Rosae)
    So basically you're saying that I have to appease my preferences just because I am ugly.

    Which means that I will get only girls who are not as attractive as I wished, but learn to like them nevertheless.

    I hate second prizes and compromises.
    I give you a piece of useful and constructive advice and you just dismiss it without giving it a second thought. No wonder you can't get the girls you like.
    And yes, seeing as you might not be as fortunate as other guys, maybe you should learn to like girls who might not be as physically attractive as you want them to be.
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    (Original post by Keraroboli Roko Rosae)
    So basically you're saying that I have to appease my preferences just because I am ugly.

    Which means that I will get only girls who are not as attractive as I wished, but learn to like them nevertheless.

    I hate second prizes and compromises.

    Why do hot guys not have to do it?
    DAMNIT
    life is unfair.
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    (Original post by Eva2)
    I give you a piece of useful and constructive advice and you just dismiss it without giving it a second thought. No wonder you can't get the girls you like.
    And yes, seeing as you might not be as fortunate as other guys, maybe you should learn to like girls who might not be as physically attractive as you want them to be.
    This is exactly the reason why I hate hate hate hate hate HATE HATE love/relationships/romance etc.

    I'd rather become a priest.

    Or earn a lot of money and hire good-looking escorts.

    Meanwhile I will hate all women.
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    (Original post by Keraroboli Roko Rosae)
    This is exactly the reason why I hate hate hate hate hate HATE HATE love/relationships/romance etc.

    I'd rather become a priest.

    Or earn a lot of money and hire good-looking escorts.

    Meanwhile I will hate all women.
    you hate women? why? what have they done to you? :confused:

    you have deeper problems than just feeling resentful.
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    (Original post by Keraroboli Roko Rosae)
    This is exactly the reason why I hate hate hate hate hate HATE HATE love/relationships/romance etc.

    I'd rather become a priest.

    Or earn a lot of money and hire good-looking escorts.

    Meanwhile I will hate all women.
    Well, you know deep down the solution to your problems. If you don't want to change, it's your fault, not the women in question. You can't always expect the most beautiful girl in the planet to fall in love with you, especially with that attitude.
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    (Original post by Eva2)
    Well, you know deep down the solution to your problems. If you don't want to change, it's your fault, not the women in question. You can't always expect the most beautiful girl in the planet to fall in love with you, especially with that attitude.
    I don't need love if love is based on the fact that I will never get the most beautiful girl.

    The only thing I will ever be able to do with the most beautiful ones is to buy them, as escorts or so.

    If that's all I can get, it's better than loosing time waiting till some average-looking girl will fall in love with me.
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    (Original post by rajandkwameali)
    you hate women? why? what have they done to you? :confused:

    you have deeper problems than just feeling resentful.
    I hate them because only the ones whom I don't like fall in love with me, while those whom I like ignore me.
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    (Original post by Keraroboli Roko Rosae)
    When I am myself, I only get girls whom I don't like

    Which means either I am stupid or this whole "be yourself" story is the most ignorant thing ever told by any human being.

    Honestly, being youself is the best way to get girls. Girls see right through false personers and it just comes across as insecure. You can however change the way you act around them, for instance refraining from saying innapropriate comments, being to nervous etc, but you can never change yourself to get a girl, it just doesn't work!
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    (Original post by flight409)
    Honestly, being youself is the best way to get girls. Girls see right through false personers and it just comes across as insecure. You can however change the way you act around them, for instance refraining from saying innapropriate comments, being to nervous etc, but you can never change yourself to get a girl, it just doesn't work!
    So far I have got THOSE WHOM I LIKE only by NOT being myself.

    By "being myself" I mean exposing myself 100% genuinely without hiding my flaws, talking about everything spontaneously, etc. and feeling comfortable about myself.

    That way I always get THOSE WHOM I DON'T LIKE.
 
 
 
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