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  • View Poll Results: During sex would you prefer a man to...
    ...reach climax early
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    57.14%
    ...not reach climax at all
    24
    28.57%
    ...too difficult a decision?
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    14.29%

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    Well?
    It's a question my friends often argue about, would women prefer a one-minute wonder or a man firing blanks?
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    I doubt it's something most women have considered, and I also doubt that either is more desirable than the other.
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    What about "reach climax late"?
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    I know it's not ideal, but most hypothetical questions aren't.

    And as for me, I'd say I must be doing something right seeing as my girlfriend and I have a pretty darn healthy sex life!
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    Early, it's better than nothing
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    If he was a 'one minute wonder' there wouldn't really be any point sleeping with him in the first place, so I'd prefer he didn't *** at all.
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    (Original post by sil3nt_cha0s)
    What about "reach climax late"?
    because that's the most obvious answer and an ideal outcome for women :P


    ...unless they wanted a quicky of course
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    (Original post by Missmeem)
    Early, it's better than nothing
    What difference does it make to the girl if the guy climaxes.

    Surely it's better for her if he takes longer because it happens for .. longer. And because he's never going to climax, she can just ask him to stop :woo:
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    (Original post by Lefty Leo)
    What difference does it make to the girl if the guy climaxes.

    Surely it's better for her if he takes longer because it happens for .. longer. And because he's never going to climax, she can just ask him to stop :woo:
    But i'd rather him *** early than not *** at all I'd imagine it to be quite upsetting if a girls' boyfriend can't *** while having sex with her
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    (Original post by Andiio)
    Apparently it doesn't exist, all men either last 2 minutes of 2 hours :awesome:
    Can guys climax and then continue with sex after that?
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    (Original post by Missmeem)
    But i'd rather him *** early than not *** at all I'd imagine it to be quite upsetting if a girls' boyfriend can't *** while having sex with her
    Well if he convinced her that it was a problem with HIM and not HER, then surely it wouldn't hurt her confidence (etc) and she'd just enjoy the endless orgasms? :p:
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    (Original post by Lefty Leo)
    What difference does it make to the girl if the guy climaxes.

    Surely it's better for her if he takes longer because it happens for .. longer. And because he's never going to climax, she can just ask him to stop :woo:
    that's what I thought until one of my female friends said a few weeks after sex with a guy "oh it was awful...he didn't come"

    it's a self confidence thing apparently, like "I'm so ugly because he didn't even finish whilst having sex with me"
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    (Original post by Missmeem)
    But i'd rather him *** early than not *** at all I'd imagine it to be quite upsetting if a girls' boyfriend can't *** while having sex with her
    But what about you? How much are you going to enjoy it if it only lasts for 2 min?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Can guys climax and then continue with sex after that?
    I don't see why not if it's with a condom...obviously it wouldn't be safe though, the sperm might find a crack or come out the bottom or something like that...
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    (Original post by Eddie_90)
    I don't see why not if it's with a condom...obviously it wouldn't be safe though, the sperm might find a crack or come out the bottom or something like that...
    what if it's not with a condom? the guy will have cummed but can still give the woman pleasure by thrusting.
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    (Original post by chic)
    But what about you? How much are you going to enjoy it if it only lasts for 2 min?
    I wouldn't enjoy it much obviously haha xD Ah well, I don't have this problem anyway :o:
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    Haha LOL! I'm not going to say which one I prefer :ninja: Both would be pretty disappointing in their own way.
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    (Original post by Lefty Leo)
    Well if he convinced her that it was a problem with HIM and not HER, then surely it wouldn't hurt her confidence (etc) and she'd just enjoy the endless orgasms? :p:
    Or the friction burn...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Can guys climax and then continue with sex after that?
    Apparently it happens but it's unusual.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Can guys climax and then continue with sex after that?
    Depends on the guy. A lot will lose their erection and have to give it a minute if they want to go again. Some guys can just power through though
 
 
 
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