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    There's no reason to try to be with him (if you don't want -just- sex). Forget about it, you can't change people.
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    (Original post by TwoDot)
    Basically I've met someone, spent three weeks with them and then we both went back to where we lived as I was at uni and they were doing a course.

    We live far away from each other so it's pain to see each other which is fine but he can drive and I can't. He has been all around the country to see his friends and even his ex during the summer but two times he has been very close to where I lived and he won't see me because he only will if there is a chance to have sex.

    I got annoyed and said since you're close why can't you just come and see me and he said what's the point, we can't have sex. This is actually making me angry. Should I just not bother with him anymore because I want to see him even if we don't get to have sex but he just doesn't get it.
    Don't bother. He's shallow, just like the rest of them. Just focus on your university course for now.
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    have some wht?
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    (Original post by Emily069)
    boys want sex. most of the time that's it.
    This is not true. I'd say it's the minority that are so self centred.
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    I'm not sure I'd call it a 'relationship', OP.
    From what you've said it appears that the guy wants sex and nothing else. It depends what you want: if all you're after is the occasional shag then fine, but it doesn't sound as if you are, so I'd find someone else if I were you.
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    (Original post by xmarilynx)
    I'm not sure I'd call it a 'relationship', OP.
    From what you've said it appears that the guy wants sex and nothing else. It depends what you want: if all you're after is the occasional shag then fine, but it doesn't sound as if you are, so I'd find someone else if I were you.
    I think what's bothering me is that he says he misses me all the time but when he gets the chance to see me he doesn't. He just seems to be lying to keep me interested which would make me angry.
 
 
 
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