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    Mods-please keep anon or delete thanks incase he reads this.

    I have this friend who i really like we have got really close lately and i feel i can tell him anything and feel he really understands me. Sometimes i think he feels the same way too. Like he sometimes is really flirty not in a touchy feely way but more like in things he says.

    But the thing is he also has a girlfriend. He never talks about her, but they have been going out a long time and still go on holidays together. I really dont go out to hurt anyone, but i really think that he just wants me to say something. Maybe i'm trying to find things that aren't there but i dunno..it just seems like he is.

    So now i really need advice...

    Should i say anything?? I feel really bad thinking about saying it but i just feel sad too that we're not together, cause i think he likes me too.

    How can i move on completely if you dont think i should say anything. Like he is my best friend in uni, i dont wanna ruin our friendship aswell.

    I dunno i just need to some insights from other people maybe with a similiar experiences?
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    Depends? Think you're better/hotter/more important than current GF? If any of these are a yes, you've deffo got a chance!
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    Personally, I would leave it. If he wasn't in a relationship (am assuming you're not?) then I would say something.
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    are you a boy or girl OP?
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    (Original post by Honey_89)
    are you a boy or girl OP?
    Thanks for the replies guys, im a girl! i would say would kinda similiar in terms of attractiveness although i would be probably be a bit slimmer, but i dont know what her personality is like. I just think he is waiting for me to say something cause he is kinda shy like that like he didnt really ask his girlfriend out, but i dont want to be a horrible person too, but its just really frustrating
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    any other advice?
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    I would suggest leaving it, it would put him in a awful position if you were to tell him as he sounds pretty steady with his girlfriend why try and disrupt that, it may also effect your friendship etc.

    Is it okay to have him as a friend and nothing more? Move on and find someone else, it is just going to eat away at you if you get slightly hung up on him.
 
 
 
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