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    (Original post by Lucy_88)
    Lol neither of us asked it just happened one night after watching a film. I think it's better if you just do it when it feels right instead of planning it.
    I won't ask what sort of film it was :eek:
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    There's no foolproof way of asking lol

    TBH if you are at the stage of wanting to have sex with someone, I think you would know them well enough to be able to ask

    But you'll find the majority of people didn't ask...it just happens

    The time will be right, and you'll know, trust me
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    We discussed it and decided on everything to begin at 0800 hours, and finish by 0900 hours.
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    We were bored. So we just ******.












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    (Original post by Local_United_Fan)
    Is this want relationshippos do? Seriously? I can't think of anything less sexy tbh...,

    "Sally, may I penetrate you this time?"
    ".....Errrrr let me check my diary...yes, its been 3 months now...you can enter"

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    loooooooooool..
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    (Original post by chic)
    Nice and romantic yes, but a little cheesy, isn't it? :P The last guy I slept with just pushed me down onto his bed and off we went, and it was beautiful!
    Hmmm a little, but I'm talking about a girl who you're not 'dating' don't have any history with, haven't known for that long etc.

    Tbh I have never asked a girl round to my bedroom for a first 'private hangout', thats a little forward, even for me...and nowadays, not to brag but, its pretty rare that I don't end up getting laid if she's agreed to come to my house - so I think for more consistent results a seemingly innocent, 'movie and a drinks' in the lounge is a better idea. Although granted...some girls do make it incredibly easy - but I kinda like a little of challenge and seduction.
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    (Original post by Shortarse)
    Well we just went with the flow, it wasn't a structured discussion...
    (Original post by Lucy_88)
    Lol neither of us asked it just happened one night after watching a film. I think it's better if you just do it when it feels right instead of planning it.
    (Original post by Buster_Bunny)
    Jus kinda... got down to it.
    No asking!

    You just get "intimate" and eventually get to sex...
    (Original post by gracie88)
    It just happens? I didn't say can I have sex with you please.
    (Original post by Deanna19)
    Neither of us asked.

    One thing just led to another, that's how it happened
    (Original post by Local_United_Fan)
    Girls want to be able to tell their friends that, 'it just happened'.
    (Original post by chic)
    It's not really something you ask, is it? It just happens...
    (Original post by emilina)
    people ask to have sex?

    neither of us asked. it just happend i would think asking ruins the fun and the intimacy somewhat?

    just laying there, kissing and cuddling 'darling, shall we proceed to full intercourse now or are you happy with some pleasant heavy petting?'
    (Original post by Jinxy)
    Just happened I certainly don't remember asking or hi masking !
    so u all jus carried condoms about all da time? dnt it seem like like u only really want sex tho?
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    (Original post by Lucy_88)
    Lol neither of us asked it just happened one night after watching a film. I think it's better if you just do it when it feels right instead of planning it.
    Which film?
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    (Original post by emanuel_arsenalfc)
    i did the naked man....

    that is we were in my room n she wanted to go pee n wen she came back in i was lying on my bed naked..

    its guaranteed to work 2 out of 3 times..
    that's good odds.
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    (Original post by Thorn89)
    There's no foolproof way of asking lol

    TBH if you are at the stage of wanting to have sex with someone, I think you would know them well enough to be able to ask

    But you'll find the majority of people didn't ask...it just happens

    The time will be right, and you'll know, trust me
    You use an awful lot, don't you? (Excuse my being picky, I'm still miffed you're not a maths student. )



    Back on topic: don't ask, discuss it beforehand so it's spontaneous and therefore more fun.:yes: Gosh, if a guy asked, I'd have a cringe binge.
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    (Original post by emanuel_arsenalfc)
    i did the naked man....

    that is we were in my room n she wanted to go pee n wen she came back in i was lying on my bed naked..

    its guaranteed to work 2 out of 3 times..
    How I met your mother much?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    so u all jus carried condoms about all da time? dnt it seem like like u only really want sex tho?
    Well, it doesn't exactly happen randomly in the middle of the day with a stranger I just met on my way back home after a lecture... It's either after a night out or when I'm dating someone, and when I go out or go on dates I do bring condoms with me, yes.
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    you're supposed to ask? ...
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    (Original post by londonboym)
    that's good odds.

    i kno lol..

    its either she has pity on ur **** n has sex with you..
    or she sees the funny side and still has sex wuth you
    or she thinks your a pedo n burns your penis with her straightners
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    (Original post by Local_United_Fan)
    Hmmm a little, but I'm talking about a girl who you're not 'dating' don't have any history with, haven't known for that long etc.

    Tbh I have never asked a girl round to my bedroom for a first 'private hangout', thats a little forward, even for me...and nowadays, not to brag but, its pretty rare that I don't end up getting laid if she's agreed to come to my house - so I think for more consistent results a seemingly innocent, 'movie and a drinks' in the lounge is a better idea. Although granted...some girls do make it incredibly easy - but I kinda like a little of challenge and seduction.
    Yeah, I suppose.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    so u all jus carried condoms about all da time? dnt it seem like like u only really want sex tho?
    Yes! if your thinking of having sex then keep a condom or two in your wallet.
    or a suppy at your house.

    doesnt seem like you want sex, seems like you wana protect yourself!
    :facepalm:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    so u all jus carried condoms about all da time? dnt it seem like like u only really want sex tho?
    Usually it will happen in your or their room, and yes there is normally a condom present. Carry them incase you need them is a far better idea than not having them and facing the choice of no sex, or parenthood. Surely people don't think carrying a condom is a greencard for everyone to have a go... it's just a precaution.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    so u all jus carried condoms about all da time? dnt it seem like like u only really want sex tho?
    Didn't use condoms as I was on the pill and previous to that we were both virgins.
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    (Original post by ArcadiaHouse)
    Which film?
    Lol it wasn't a porno or anything it was just a normal film.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How I met your mother much?
    true..but it does work.. plus whya re you anon?
 
 
 
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