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    Things got a bit steamy and he asked whether I wanted to, I said yes obviously xD
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    If it was actually yours and hers first time, you might want to check you both feel ready...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    so u all jus carried condoms about all da time? dnt it seem like like u only really want sex tho?
    He had condoms in his room, as i think most people do.
    How old are you?
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    (Original post by emanuel_arsenalfc)
    i kno lol..

    its either she has pity on ur **** n has sex with you..
    or she sees the funny side and still has sex wuth you
    or she thinks your a pedo n burns your penis with her straightners
    depending what you're into, they're all winners.
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    (Original post by Lucy_88)
    Lol it wasn't a porno or anything it was just a normal film.
    Oh I know, I was just wondering if it was a terribly romantic film or anything.
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    'Maybe your **** will reach it better?'

    *cringe*
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    so u all jus carried condoms about all da time? dnt it seem like like u only really want sex tho?
    no but being sensible adults that we are we have condoms at our own homes. most people do . . . .
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    I think asking ruins the mood - you should just do it! When it feels right, of course.
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    (Original post by elsa_89)
    You use an awful lot, don't you? (Excuse my being picky, I'm still miffed you're not a maths student. )



    Back on topic: don't ask, discuss it beforehand so it's spontaneous and therefore more fun.:yes: Gosh, if a guy asked, I'd have a cringe binge.
    What the hell is that?!
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    (Original post by elsa_89)
    You use an awful lot, don't you? (Excuse my being picky, I'm still miffed you're not a maths student. )



    Back on topic: don't ask, discuss it beforehand so it's spontaneous and therefore more fun.:yes: Gosh, if a guy asked, I'd have a cringe binge.
    I just type it without thinking :P
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    Conversation turned to embrace, which eventually dovetailed into mutual fondling, which swiftly became foreplay, which ultimately graduated to sex. There was no formality to it whatsoever.
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    No asking questions. It's wasting time talking about sex when you could actually be having sex.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    so u all jus carried condoms about all da time? dnt it seem like like u only really want sex tho?
    Its not like we were getting busy in the street, I had condoms in my room and so did he.

    And yeah I did want sex, but he's my boyfriend so thats allowed
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    so u all jus carried condoms about all da time? dnt it seem like like u only really want sex tho?
    Carrying condoms around doesn't mean that you are after sex all the time or are a ****, it just means that you respect yourself and the other person. Also lots of people after a certain age just tend to have condoms in their rooms and about their person
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    I got him drunk and jumped on him, it had previously take him about 6 months to kiss me so I thought I'd help him out a little with the sex stuff
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    It was after an exam and he just said, "Do you want to have sex today, then?" so we did. We had discussed it beforehand and it was becoming clear that we were pretty ready.
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    (Original post by Lozzaa)
    What the hell is that?!
    Oh my, this thread is filling up with Notts students. :awesome:

    It's when something is so cringeworthy you just can't stop cringeing. :sadnod:
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    (Original post by chic)
    Nice and romantic yes, but a little cheesy, isn't it? :P The last guy I slept with just pushed me down onto his bed and off we went, and it was beautiful!
    More cheese than a chedder factory, but it will have pretty good results in general!

    I'm agreeing with LUF again...this HAS to stop :mad:
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    He asked whether I wanted to have sex, and I blanched for a moment, refrained from laughing from surprise and said "No, sorry" and we continued. I really do not think we were ready at the time. On another day, I discussed it with him, and made sure he knew that I wanted him, but I wasn't ready for that yet, and then a few weeks later it was about to happen and he asked, "Are you sure?" and a "yes" swiftly ended that conversation.
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    My first boyfriend said to me "do you want to have sex?" and I said no.
 
 
 
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