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    A few weeks ago i had a thing with this guy in my year at uni, we slept together and also went on a few dates. I know he'd previously been in a relationship with another girl at uni, however they had broken up a few months earlier. It soon ended as he'd texted me a lot and i felt uncomfortable around him (he once patted my stomach and reminded me of my diet when i decided to order a chocolate cake!!!!!)

    However, he's in my tutor group and today at uni we had tutorial sessions and his ex-gf was talking about how he woke her up this morning etc, and they were both being really cuddly and affectionate towards each other, it actually made me feel sick, I knew they were still good friends but i guess its a confirmation they're back together.

    I just feel really jealous now, and awkward- I know i shouldn't be as me and him weren't a good fit but he's not speaking to me now like he used to even though it ended on good terms, he used to speak to me daily and now not at all- I shouldn't BE jealous but im regretting sleeping with him, as its obviously brought up feelings. I have to see them now everyday at uni, especially in tutorials and its making me dread go in- something i dont want

    is it ok im feeling this way? will it pass? anything I can do, maybe ask him just to lower the PDA?

    It will pass, you will find someone else. Chill, life's a breeze.
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    maybe he's doing this on purpose?
    Move on, you broke up with him for a reason.

    He can't really go back out with his old girlfriend and still keep relations with you. Get over it.

    i will get over it, just is it normal to feel slightly jealous?
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