would it matter to you

never been in that situation.

when ive worked hard i succeed.

Reply 2

magiccarpet

habosh

you know this feeling,when you wark so hard for something and then at the end you dont do well...would you just accept it would you react vigerously to it or would you just feel bad and forget it :smile:

happened to me. over xmas i spent 2 months slaving every single minute on this goddamn essay, reading the whole internet the whole library everything all day everyday. i wrote it up with 100 footnotes for the 2000 wd essay and ended up with a D as it was fragmenty and poorly structured.

you gotta just tell urself yu couldnt have tried any harder, learn from it and mov on

Reply 3

OP

I for me never let it go... :smile:

Reply 4

magiccarpet

what was it that you did?

Reply 5

Acaila

17

At first I'll seem fine, then something will set me off crying for a while :frown:

I really hate it when that happens :frown:

Reply 6

Angel_Cake

I'm generally quite a balanced person, but when that happens I find it really hard. I normally start off a bit in denial and seem like I don't care, then it'll suddenly hit me and I'll be really upset. And it takes me ages to really get over it!

Reply 7

sparklyglitter

10

React badly then try and learn from what I did wrong.

Reply 8

JaF

I was really pissed off that I wasn't made head boy. But I got over it eventually.

Reply 9

TakemetoAvalon

habosh

you know this feeling,when you wark so hard for something and then at the end you dont do well...would you just accept it would you react vigerously to it or would you just feel bad and forget it :smile:

Unfortunately I don't really work that hard for anything... or maybe not enough things go wrong for me to notice that I'm not working hard enough for something.
I think what I do is work very hard without realising it, and then if things go wrong I'm not too peeved.

Reply 10

OP

for me there is a chance i'd get shocked for couple of days I feel as If I was sick or something

Reply 11

Sam_B

14

habosh

you know this feeling,when you wark so hard for something and then at the end you dont do well...would you just accept it would you react vigerously to it or would you just feel bad and forget it :smile:

i would be very angry with myself.

then i would go and do the thing again to make it right!

Reply 12

Jenni_Kitten

I'm confused, how is this health and relationships?

I don't accept things easily at first, and I get angry and frustrated, but I've found the old 'time's a great healer' to be true. There are still sore points with me though.

Reply 13

OP

Jenni_Kitten

I'm confused, how is this health and relationships?

I don't accept things easily at first, and I get angry and frustrated, but I've found the old 'time's a great healer' to be true. There are still sore points with me though.

doing bad when you work hard
---------->saddness------>healthproblems----->heartattack
here you go :wink:

Reply 14

SilverWings

14

It doesn't actually hit me that I've messed up until a few days after the thing happened...

For example, I missed my maths exam on Monday, but it isn't bothering me, infact I find it kinda funny in a way... but somewhere deep down its eating away at my insides and pretty soon, I'll get really bothered about it...

Reply 15

SciFi25

I'd just slash the marker's tires!! They soon learn not to give bad marks at £400 a go!!

Reply 16

OP

SciFi25

I'd just slash the marker's tires!! They soon learn not to give bad marks at £400 a go!!

wow...that is the bes anybody can do...today I'm going to buy a box of pins and off to england..WAit for me MR EDEXCEL here I come :biggrin:

Reply 17

The Crow