How long will a guy stay with you if you say you don't want to have sex! Watch
You keep saying "I just got with him", "I just got out of a 3 year relationship"... 8 months ago is not really "just"!
Every guy is different and it's hard to say how long he's going to be okay with it, but I think you need to sit down and think about why it is you don't want to have sex and how long you plan to keep him waiting.
if you make it to a year and he's not cheating on you... I'll give you my car
as for how long - who knows it depends on the guy
What kind of car have you got?
Honda civic hatchback, 1997, 1.4... Worth all of sod all
Okay so I just got into a relationship with this guy. He's way more serious about us than I am. I just got out of a 3 year serious relationship that had a bad breakup and don't really want to get into anything serious or have sex yet. He obviously wants to though and hes told me he loves me and everything. I know he does and hes not lying about that, and he's been really amazing so far about the no sex thing (we've been together 8 months now) He says almost everyday though that he loves me and wants to have sex and all that. I still dont...and he isnt forcing me to, but i know he really wants to! How long will he continue being okay with this though? I know sex is something most guys want in the relationship, but how long will you be okay with not having sex?
You did say, however, that you "don't really want to get into anything serious or have sex yet". This may sound insensitive, but from a guy's point of view, sex isn't the glue of a relationship. Men don't tend to see that a relationship is serious if you've had sex. So in that respect, don't worry about sex being an indication to a serious relationship, it probably isn't the case on his part.
Hope this helps and I'm sure whatever you decide you will sort it out!
i hope you've told him you don't want sex.
Anyway's honestly I'd be ok with it, I'd imagine it would get pretty difficult though especially if you sometimes sleep in the same bed and all that. I mean how close do you get to each other?
But not everyone is me, some guys would have left you already and some would be at the end of the line. I'd talk about it with him even if it is just to confirm it's you who don't feel ready, so he doesn't think it's something about him.