Basically, im nearly 20 and have never really had a girlfriend, I see all my other mates with girls or that have had girls before.
I just really dont know how to get a girlfriend?
Its strange, some girls I can talk to and make laugh, but others i just go all shy?
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- Thread Starter
- 21-07-2009 15:58
- 21-07-2009 19:52
You'd think having a girlfriend was something fantastic.. That's until you actually get one. But be easy-going, the girls will like you for that (y)
- 21-07-2009 19:55
What i've realised is that girls can be a lot more open minded, and often bluntness does work, just like slipping in 'so wanna go out?' is just the best way as it leaves nothing to the imagination. Im not saying all girls are ****s however
- 21-07-2009 19:55
Why don't you ask someone out? Even if things don't work out, at least it'll be your little push into the dating world.
Or take up some activities away from your friends - maybe you're too used to being around them that you're unwilling to try something new. Perhaps being around people you don't know will boost your confidence.
- 21-07-2009 19:56
the last girl i dated left me the next day :P lol
- 21-07-2009 19:58
Ask someone out.
If you don´t have the confidence then hit the booze and then ask
- 21-07-2009 20:02
i think that you should really like the person before you ask them out, because then it should come naturally and you wouldn't feel uncomfortable and in the position of always thinking what to do next and how to start liking that girl.
- 16-09-2009 02:27
Every one will give you advice and stuff about confidence and how to ask her out but i reckon your thinking where to look for one in the first place. Cinemas are a good place to look for girl. Someone who's sitting alone in any place really and just ask them if their alright of they're waiting for someone. A environment often determines the the type of girl you can expect. The city, high class, hot girls that are too high for someone who doesn't think they have good enough looks. Shopping malls, depending on how big and famous they propably the same as the city. Markets are a good place in particulary farmers markets. They attract (from my experience) down to earth girls different to that in the city. Plus other event like new years eve or other public events. Get involved in a sport or a group thing involving other people. You could try online. But most of all when you are trying to hit on makesure your tidy, don't lie and listen to her.