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this is what me and my boyfriend do-is it weird? what kind of things do YOU do? watch

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    we've been going out for over a year, it has been on and off but when im with him i couldnt imagine myself with anyone else.

    we'll have the evenings where he'll bring round a compilation cd of different composers. we play word games (sort of like scrabble) but he starts the sentence and i have to finish it until we've got to a conclusion. i have a whole scrap book full of words/sentences/stories/poems which we've done together while playing this game.
    we dont use facebook or msn so its more face-to face with everything that we do.

    when i'm round his house (he has a swimming pool and an indoor gym) he wakes me up at 6 to play badminton and then we go swimming.

    i have a play house in my garden which no-one uses and for some reason he's always loved the idea of us having sex in there. we play role play games where im a cafe lady and hes a customer; i serve him tea and we eat cookies. other days he brings up the idea of us dressing in toga and he buys wine.

    I know this isn't the "average" thing that people in relationships do today and i guess thats why ive never had the guts to tell anyone what we really get up to. I say it's the normal "watching a film on his sofa" but its never like that. We have so much fun dressing up before we have sex, like he puts on a pair pink bunny ears and I wear fairy wings. It's so much fun but people think its weird. I hear people go on about playing wii and xbox and arguing on facebook. he doesnt like facebook so I never use it.

    What kind of things do you do with your partner?
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    Usually just watching films and going for drinks/food and for walks and stuff.
    But if you enjoy what you do then fair enough. I wish i had a boyfriend with a swimming pool that would be ace.
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    I say good on you for going about your relationship in a different way to everyone else :yes: Sounds like fun to me.
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    lol wish me and my bf did that much! sounds like fun :teeth:

    we just watch films, go out wandering round town, go swimming, cooking that sort of thing :dontknow:
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    sounds like you have a genuinely fun time with each other that average couples dont do. i definately think finding different activities to do with each other helps keep the realtionship energetic and healthy.
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    Thats very not normal.

    Potential paedophilic tendencies I reckon.
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    Sounds like you have an amazing relationship I'm really happy for you
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    Hahha you two sound very kinky.

    As long as you two love each other, who cares?
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    Sounds unrealistic, but if that is what you genuinely do, it sounds really fun!
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    It sounds fun, and as many people said if your happy then dont stop
    Why be boring.
    My partner and me just work so when we do see one another we tend to go out for meals, walks, cinema, and thats it really. Sad eh
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    I think this sounds fun! I wish I could do all those things with someone especially the dressing up, hah - most people do just the typical things like cinema/restaurant/pub etc. Which is ok but I'd like to do some of those things too. Who started most of those things, did they just happen? Most people think I'm weird if I suggest anything slightly out of the ordinary to them so I tend not to anymore
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    me and my ex use to mainly shout and throw plates at each other. good times
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    Not something I've heard of people doing before but sounds fun. Especially if the cafe roleplay becomes something like in the porn films:

    Cafe is ready to close and there's one customer left and a young (21-23 yo) waitress in there. She looks at the man and winks then walks away wiggling her backside. Man takes hint and follows her into the kitchen. They then go at it over the counter, on the cokker and against the wall. Man slaps girls arse with a spatula a few times and then the man tugs up his trousers and walks out with a free meal to boot.

    EDIT: Rachellg: Fancy suggesting something out of the ordinary to me? :p:
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    rahh you too must have some really nice kinky sex. heyy what ever floats your boat i guess.
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    Haha you couldn't make it up!
    The pink bunny ears on him is pushing it a bit :p: but other than that fair enough, it sounds like the childhood I wish I'd had! Seriously, if you enjoy it then good for you for doing something different with your relationship.
    Mine is the same as everyone else's unfortunately, the regular boring stuff... TV, cooking, computer, walking, cinema, meals, whatever. We live with each other when we're at Uni as well so it can be quite dull.
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    (Original post by Sir_Vile_Minds)
    Not something I've heard of people doing before but sounds fun. Especially if the cafe roleplay becomes something like in the porn films:

    Cafe is ready to close and there's one customer left and a young (21-23 yo) waitress in there. She looks at the man and winks then walks away wiggling her backside. Man takes hint and follows her into the kitchen. They then go at it over the counter, on the cokker and against the wall. Man slaps girls arse with a spatula a few times and then the man tugs up his trousers and walks out with a free meal to boot.

    EDIT: Rachellg: Fancy suggesting something out of the ordinary to me? :p:
    Now you've put this in my head:


    Oh I dropped the milk.

    (Cue stripping)

    "I'm going to F*** you with my pecker!"



    Zach and Mirii make a porno for those of you who haven't seen it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    we've been going out for over a year, it has been on and off but when im with him i couldnt imagine myself with anyone else.

    we'll have the evenings where he'll bring round a compilation cd of different composers. we play word games (sort of like scrabble) but he starts the sentence and i have to finish it until we've got to a conclusion. i have a whole scrap book full of words/sentences/stories/poems which we've done together while playing this game.
    we dont use facebook or msn so its more face-to face with everything that we do.

    when i'm round his house (he has a swimming pool and an indoor gym) he wakes me up at 6 to play badminton and then we go swimming.

    i have a play house in my garden which no-one uses and for some reason he's always loved the idea of us having sex in there. we play role play games where im a cafe lady and hes a customer; i serve him tea and we eat cookies. other days he brings up the idea of us dressing in toga and he buys wine.

    I know this isn't the "average" thing that people in relationships do today and i guess thats why ive never had the guts to tell anyone what we really get up to. I say it's the normal "watching a film on his sofa" but its never like that. We have so much fun dressing up before we have sex, like he puts on a pair pink bunny ears and I wear fairy wings. It's so much fun but people think its weird. I hear people go on about playing wii and xbox and arguing on facebook. he doesnt like facebook so I never use it.

    What kind of things do you do with your partner?
    Thanks for the ideas you sound too cool for school :cool:
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    I was with you until the whole bunny ears and fair wings part. But yeh, this sounds like soo much fun... I may need to try it sometime
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    (Original post by n0c0ntr0l)
    Now you've put this in my head:


    Oh I dropped the milk.

    (Cue stripping)

    "I'm going to F*** you with my pecker!"



    Zach and Mirii make a porno for those of you who haven't seen it.
    Damn! I thought I was being original there with something that's not been done yet :doh:
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    With the exception of a few things, it sounds pretty ok
 
 
 
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