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    Me and my two friends were discussing this the other day, and wanted a male opinion.

    In your own opinion if you and a girl have sex very soon after meeting does that ruin the chances of a relationship?

    We are leaning towards yes.

    The one man I had sex with on first meeting, it always remained purely sexual and nothing more.
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    Depends on the circumstances I guess.. If it's a hooker... No relationship... If not, I don't see why It couldn't work...
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    (Original post by AprilMay88)
    Me and my two friends were discussing this the other day, and wanted a male opinion.

    In your own opinion if you and a girl have sex very soon after meeting does that ruin the chances of a relationship?

    We are leaning towards yes.

    The one man I had sex with on first meeting, it always remained purely sexual and nothing more.
    Only if you're like riding a corpse.
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    IMO, it would mean she wanted me purely for her own pleasure and my looks rather than a relationship, so yes it does ruin the chances of a relationship :yes:

    But there are exceptions...
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    I don't think it necessarily ruins the chance of a relationship, but I find that girls who jump straight into bed with you don't generally want relationships.
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    I just figure with a lot of guys, not all. Their main goal is to get the girl into bed. If you have to wait you gradually get to know the girl blah blah, having sex too soon means he's got what he wants. AGAIN not all guys.
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    i think a relationship stands better chances if sex doesnt happen the first time you meet...i would say after "dating" for about 2-3 weeks is minimum for sex to lead to a relationship...<< that depends on how much time you spend with each other during that time though
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    No. Would probably increase the chances of a relationship. Sometimes girls are too hard to read, but if they slept with me, I would guess that they liked me.
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    (Original post by JayB124)
    No. Would probably increase the chances of a relationship. Sometimes girls are too hard to read, but if they slept with me, I would guess that they liked me.
    Agree with the bit in bold :yes: Can be really frustrating sometimes...
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    Depends on the girl.
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    I don't think it necessarily means "i want you for sex only" but jumping into bed straight away gives off that vibe regardless either of their intentions imo. I think it could work if they both want it to & if they click obviously..
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    easy read: they hoes

    nothing in life comes for free
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    Possibly.. The guy could simply reason: Girl giving it up on the first date = Casual sex, not girlfriend material.
    Not saying that's necessarily true, however :rolleyes:
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    Yer i guess it does. Although obviously it depends on the girl.
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    absolutely not for me.
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    No. Why would it?

    All it would mean is there is mutual physical attraction. If your personalities match too after getting to know each other why can't there be a relationship?
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    dont know depends on the girl.
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    no way, just keep moving
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    all replies in thread are male .. biased thread
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    (Original post by AprilMay88)
    Me and my two friends were discussing this the other day, and wanted a male opinion.

    In your own opinion if you and a girl have sex very soon after meeting does that ruin the chances of a relationship?

    We are leaning towards yes.

    The one man I had sex with on first meeting, it always remained purely sexual and nothing more.
    possibly yes, keep sex to a minium.
 
 
 
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