Urgh. Well, two of my friends went out with each other last year, until he broke it off (quite nastily, too) just before Christmas. Then, at the beginning of this summer, he asked me out, and I rejected him because a) I don't like him that way, and b) my best friend still liked him and I didn't want to hurt her. So I didn't tell her and he promised he wouldn't either, cos we didn't want to hurt her. But then, yesterday he decided to tell her, and now she's furious with me for lying about the reason why me and this guy aren't friends anymore. I haven't seen her since before he told her and I've tried messaging her but she hasn't replied. And now I'm afraid that I've lost her as a friend which really sucks because she's pretty much all I've got. And it'll make uni really awkward cos she's in a couple of my seminars and he's in another of my seminars and it'll just really suck.
And I just got back from cycling solidly for nearly an hour because I needed the pain and the oblivion and I've really done my left leg in
Urgh. Well, two of my friends went out with each other last year, until he broke it off (quite nastily, too) just before Christmas. Then, at the beginning of this summer, he asked me out, and I rejected him because a) I don't like him that way, and b) my best friend still liked him and I didn't want to hurt her. So I didn't tell her and he promised he wouldn't either, cos we didn't want to hurt her. But then, yesterday he decided to tell her, and now she's furious with me for lying about the reason why me and this guy aren't friends anymore. I haven't seen her since before he told her and I've tried messaging her but she hasn't replied. And now I'm afraid that I've lost her as a friend which really sucks because she's pretty much all I've got. And it'll make uni really awkward cos she's in a couple of my seminars and he's in another of my seminars and it'll just really suck.
And I just got back from cycling solidly for nearly an hour because I needed the pain and the oblivion and I've really done my left leg in
Basically.
Give her some time, eventually she'll accept your call. Maybe send a text message asking to meet up to discuss everything. That way, she'll likely receive the message and you can meet in a coffee shop or something. She won't be able to escape and you can explain the situation to her. That will remove any misunderstanding and ill-intention. Don't worry, Cooro. Given how much this person means to you, clearly your friendship was strong before this incident. Overcoming such a hurdle will be a testament to that. Good decision with the exercise too, it does help to relieve emotional stress.