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    (Original post by *MJ*)
    Don't think i'm hesitating since i've lived here for 17 and a half years...:p:

    Yup I have to agree, place is great, everything is where you want it to be and the university itself is pretty good too...

    And I'm going to be in the Biosciences building first year hopefully...:yep:

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    Applying for Dentistry and 1st year is in Bioscience building and then moved off to Heath park campus and the hospital...:woo:
    Shouldn't you be going to the university of Pakora?
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    As people have said we really can't tell from the info provided.
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    (Original post by BossManSingh)
    Shouldn't you be going to the university of Pakora?
    There isn't one...:sad:

    But there is the amazing course of Pakora Studies...:awesome:
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    unfortunately, it sounds like you are the rebound guy
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    I'd be less concerned about your girlfriend and her ex and more concerned about your crippling insecurities and tendency to over-analyse a situation.
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    (Original post by FrustratedHistorian)
    unfortunately, it sounds like you are the rebound guy
    in what ways?
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    (Original post by smellslikemarmite)
    I'd be less concerned about your girlfriend and her ex and more concerned about your crippling insecurities and tendency to over-analyse a situation.
    Of course he is going to be insecure when he hear from his gf's friend that she is still getting over her ex.. she still has feelimgs for her ex
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    (Original post by blondyx)
    Of course he is going to be insecure when he hear from his gf's friend that she is still getting over her ex.. she still has feelimgs for her ex
    thank you

    but does "still getting over her ex" mean im a rebound guy and the relationship is doomed?
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    (Original post by blondyx)
    Of course he is going to be insecure when he hear from his gf's friend that she is still getting over her ex.. she still has feelimgs for her ex
    Sooooo not the same thing. Getting over ex is not the same as feelings for ex.
    Plus your friends aren't always right when they go blabbing their mouths off to your boyfriend.
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    (Original post by smellslikemarmite)
    Sooooo not the same thing. Getting over ex is not the same as feelings for ex.
    Plus your friends aren't always right when they go blabbing their mouths off to your boyfriend.
    what is the difference?
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    (Original post by Voltex)
    in what ways?
    since the gf rushed into relationships...she hasn't truly dealt with the breakup with her ex properly. Resolving things by getting into another relationship in a matter of 2 weeks, her feelings towards her ex may still remain.
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    (Original post by blondyx)
    what is the difference?
    Getting over someone is like some emotional detachment period that you have to go through. You could say that when I first started going out with my current boyfriend, I was still getting over my ex, not because I still had feelings for him, but because I was trying to get some closure on how he treated me, and get used to life without him.
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    (Original post by FrustratedHistorian)
    since the gf rushed into relationships...she hasn't truly dealt with the breakup with her ex properly. Resolving things by getting into another relationship in a matter of 2 weeks, her feelings towards her ex may still remain.
    hey, it was about 2-3 months
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    (Original post by smellslikemarmite)
    Getting over someone is like some emotional detachment period that you have to go through. You could say that when I first started going out with my current boyfriend, I was still getting over my ex, not because I still had feelings for him, but because I was trying to get some closure on how he treated me, and get used to life without him.
    I suppose.. but if you didn't have feelings for someone i don't know why you would need a detachment period because you would already feel detached emotionally from them.. and not need closure because you don't have the feelings, you don't care
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    (Original post by blondyx)
    I suppose.. but if you didn't have feelings for someone i don't know why you would need a detachment period because you would already feel detached emotionally from them.. and not need closure because you don't have the feelings, you don't care
    You can't detach yourself from somebody in an instant. Doesn't work that way. If they were a big part of your life, you can't just emotionally detach from them just like that, even if you have no romantic feelings for them anymore.
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    Two months since she broke up with her ex so I dont think you are. Although you might still be. ASK HER!
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    (Original post by smellslikemarmite)
    You can't detach yourself from somebody in an instant. Doesn't work that way. If they were a big part of your life, you can't just emotionally detach from them just like that, even if you have no romantic feelings for them anymore.
    Hmm thats strange.. (not saying your wrong) but i always thought that you must have feelings for someone if you are still emotionally attached.. whether they are romantic or friendly
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    I think she is
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    um.. maybe so what, I started up with my bf of over a year now, just two weeks after my ex, whom I was heartbroken over him for a few months, but I didn't want him back. I also fell in love with my guy now and am happier than ever.
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    (Original post by Dnator)
    I think she is
    what makes you think that?
 
 
 
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