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    (Original post by lnjames)
    Well you're a bit screwed then. :confused:
    Or not

    Anyway OP, in all seriousness you seem to have made up your mind and are arguing with anyone that says wait, so really why do you need to ask?
    Seriously though, you will regret losing it to a one night stand.
    What about people that don't believe in sex before marriage? They're most likely going to be virgins at university, and they're okay with staying that way.
    I don't understand why anyone would want to 'lose it' to someone that they're not in love with, maybe that's just me and my old fashioned ways, lol.
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    Seriously, like, wtf?

    Sunday list of chores: -
    1. Do Tesco shop.
    2. Tidy room.
    3. Lose virginity to guy in back alley...

    If you're so desperate...and regardless of what you may deny, in this thread at the very least you are coming across as extremely desperate to 'lose it' and you have no option or wherewithal to 'lose it' before uni starts (and on that, where do you live apart from the depths of a forest?) then wait til Freshers Week.
    Lots of horny 18 and 19 year olds sleeping around for an entire week. You can lose your virginity to countless guys in a drunken stupor who won't even remember your name in the morning.
    How more memorable can your first time be?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Anon or delete.
    I dont go clubbing/out drinking, dont have a boyfriend.

    Am I just going to have to wait till Uni?
    I'm 17, going to Uni next year.
    Im going to uni this year and just lost it to a guy that id been texting for a few weeks and it was awful!!!! I'd reccommend waiting til your with someone you actually want to lose it too and not just for the sake of it as you might end up regretting it.
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    I'm not really in a position to comment too much, but I'd definitely say to wait!
    Not only might you regret it generally, but having sex with someone you actually really love has got to be so much better in any case!
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    (Original post by Helzerel)
    Seriously, like, wtf?

    Sunday list of chores: -
    1. Do Tesco shop.
    2. Tidy room.
    3. Lose virginity to guy in back alley...

    If you're so desperate...and regardless of what you may deny, in this thread at the very least you are coming across as extremely desperate to 'lose it' and you have no option or wherewithal to 'lose it' before uni starts (and on that, where do you live apart from the depths of a forest?) then wait til Freshers Week.
    Lots of horny 18 and 19 year olds sleeping around for an entire week. You can lose your virginity to countless guys in a drunken stupor who won't even remember your name in the morning.
    How more memorable can your first time be?
    Wth?
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    Seduce a male friend maybe. Friends with benefits is a great way to learn.
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    I dont have any male friends so thats not an option.
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    What are you even losing lol. I hate that term losing your virginity, if the term was 'having a penis stuck inside me' then I bet people wouldn't go on about it as much. Lol

    'want a penis stuck inside me before I go to uni'
    really, it doesn't matter
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    (Original post by Yawn11)
    I'll take your virginity if you want
    same - aslong as your not realllly bad looking. bad looking is ok, just really bad is a no...:rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Ronar)
    really, it doesn't matter
    To me it does.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I dont have any male friends so thats not an option.
    You could try it with a female friend perhaps.
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    (Original post by a_t)
    Erm yeah it is, sex is a big deal and it is really that great, not having it at all does suck

    Though if you're speaking literally you're right, it really doesn't suck, no sucking anywhere :rolleyes:
    If you've never had it you don't know what you're missing so it's not as bad as having it for a while and then having to go ages without. It's **** to begin with anyways
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    (Original post by lnjames)
    You could try it with a female friend perhaps.
    :laugh: No.
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    i think you should wait

    it sounds to me like you don't have much guy contact eg you said you dont have any friends who are guys. that means you are probably quite sheltered? and probably aren't very experienced in the first steps or 'bases' which i think means you need to slowly build up before 'losing it'

    wait wait wait!!!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    :laugh: No.
    I mean strap-ons and all that. If they're really manly it'll be a similar experience.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Cant exacly get lashed on my own, my friends dont/wont go drinking. Even though you were being sarcastic.
    I'm always free, we can lose it together :cool:
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    (Original post by lnjames)
    I mean strap-ons and all that. If they're really manly it'll be a similar experience.

    When you put it like that, it sounds fine :rolleyes:
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    I'm free most of the time, usually I have a £50 charge but I'll waiver the fee this time.
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    I personally waited until I felt right
    If I were you I'd either have fun in fresher's week
    Or if you have someone who you like and would be willing to help you lose it, not like using you, but instead as a friend or lover, then go for that
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    When you put it like that, it sounds fine :rolleyes:
    Well you don't have many other options do you? What uni are you going to?
 
 
 
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