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    My boyfriend is a virgin. We tried to have sex for the first time at the weekend, and he couldnt maintain his errection. He said this has never happened before and he can maintain it when hes by himself. He did manage to maintain it for about a minute when we tried to have sex only he became soft. He told me after that he couldnt feel anything the entire time he was inside me.

    Is there anything I can do or he can do to help?
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    please remember no sex times are allowed
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    It was probably just nerves tbh, but If he couldnt feel anything he may have a problem and should get checked out by a doctor.
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    I've heard of people losing erection due to nerves, but... him not feeling anything inside you? How's that possible?
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    (Original post by falls_whisper)
    I've heard of people losing erection due to nerves, but... him not feeling anything inside you? How's that possible?
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    Oh you're mean. :laugh:
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    L O Mother ******* L
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    hahahahahaha............
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    He was probably really nervous, nothing else.
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    Did you use lube, and was it numbing/ tingly lube? :dontknow: that's all I can think of.
    He might want to get checked out by a doctor if he's not feeling as much as he should be.
    Might just be that he wasn't as sensitive because he was soft though, and again he could just lose his erection because of nerves. Either way, I hope it sorts itself out
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    I feel nothing when things are too lubricated, especially in certain positions like girl-on-top. At least for now.
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    (Original post by ozzyoscy)
    I feel nothing when things are too lubricated, especially in certain positions like girl-on-top. At least for now.
    How on earth have you got so much neg?

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    (Original post by Sakura-Chan)
    How on earth have you got so much neg?

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    I've been getting several 'idiot' negs a few days in a row, seemingly from the same person and alts or friends. It's a strange stalking campaign. I went from +45ish to -26 within 7 minutes of reps. I wrote in ask-a-moderator but still no replies on it...
 
 
 
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