Oral Sex - Using a Hand on her Head

In a lot of porn movies, where the female is 'servicing' her male, you see the guy put a hand on top of her head while shes giving him oral sex. but I tried this on a girl and she got really offended and said it was insulting to do that.
Do lot of girls get this from guys, do lots of guys here do that??

Reply 1

Hana_87

16

My boyfriend does that.

I don't mind really, as long as it doesn't hurt! :smile:

Reply 2

Daveo

16

To be honest i prefer holding on to the bed :redface:

Reply 3

Checking for Spies

10

It makes me feel a bit...restricted?? In general I don't think most girls are too fond of it..sometimes it's a bit too porno, but whatever floats your boat eh? x

Reply 4

Daveo

16

Daveo

To be honest i prefer holding on to the bed :redface:

Or something else depending on where I am - such as grass or a blanket

I really hate that

Daveo

Or something else depending on where I am - such as grass or a blanket

*wolf whistles* :rolleyes:

Reply 7

KingAS

ramroff

In a lot of porn movies, where the female is 'servicing' her male, you see the guy put a hand on top of her head while shes giving him oral sex. but I tried this on a girl and she got really offended and said it was insulting to do that.
Do lot of girls get this from guys, do lots of guys here do that??

i guess it helps you control the pace?

Reply 8

queenselphie

yeah, I really dislike that. How can you be free to move and give it your best when it feels like he's pushing you down. I'd feel a bit pressured, as if he was trying to stop me from leaving. On the other hand, stroking her hair would probably be okay, if you wanted something similiar but less threatening.

Reply 9

sheerframboise

1

Yeah my boyfriend does that sometimes, I'm not offended at all. I don't feel degraded as such, seems to suggest to me that he likes it, and a bit of positive feedback is always nice. Maybe because he isn't so forceful, only gently rests his hand on my head...?

Reply 10

Ditzy

1

I'm not too keen. It kinda feels like I'm being forced to do it if theres too much interference, which is very off-putting

Reply 11

SilverWings

14

Pushing with your hand is a BAD idea... whereas someone (male OR female) having their hand RESTING on your head always shows some kind of enjoyment and therefore encouragement!! Just don't ram the persons head onto you, and people, don't rip hair out!! It HURTS!!

Reply 12

Checking for Spies

10

SilverWings

and people, don't rip hair out!! It HURTS!!

.....Yet is still rather kinky lol :wink:

x

Reply 13

Daveo

16

Maybe its just me but it wouldn't really turn me on to do that to a girl.
I prefer her to have all the space she wants so she can do whatever she wants at her pace.
And it allows her to tease :biggrin:

Reply 14

SilverWings

14

Checking for Spies

.....Yet is still rather kinky lol :wink:

x

Not when you're hair sore!! :mad:

Reply 15

blissy

15

SilverWings

Pushing with your hand is a BAD idea... whereas someone (male OR female) having their hand RESTING on your head always shows some kind of enjoyment and therefore encouragement!! Just don't ram the persons head onto you, and people, don't rip hair out!! It HURTS!!