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Tempted to drug boyfriend.. watch

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    Ok know how this sounds but honestly, it sounds much worse than it is. Im not trying to slip him some speed or anything like that.

    Basically I get thrush quite often especially just before my period and if I get treated and am all better I think he has it and is reinfecting me everytime we have sex. We haven't been together long enough for me to tell him I think we both have this, and I know all it takes is one little pill and he'll be better, I can take it to and we can both get on with our lives, having great sex and no one having thrush.

    Would this be an awful thing to do? Its just to save embarrassment. Its not like it will cause him any harm, quite the contary, so why go through all the explaining and grossing him out when I could just deal with it on my own. I just want us to both be treated but I dont know how to tell him what the pill is for?? If you think he has to be told how would you go about even saying it??
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    Use a condom :lolwut:
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    Just tell him you think he's got thrush, he's giving it to you and if he takes one or two pills you'll be sorted. A little embarrassment won't hurt him
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    Surely you should have a mature conversation with your boyfriend and try and sort this problem out? Instead of dodging the issue :confused:
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    why r u anynymous? :lolwut:
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    You can get prosecuted for sexual harassment for tht
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    Can't really see why not, to be honest. I'd rather not know I had thrush and just have it cured miraculously.

    That said, I'm the sort of person who would more than appreciate a bit of acid or speed slipped in their drink.
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    If you can't talk to him about it you probably shouldn't be having sex with him.
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    (Original post by Dynamitri)
    why r u anynymous? :lolwut:
    Having thrush isn't really something you want every one to know don't you think.

    To those that say just tell him, I guess thats what I was expecting to hear. It'll still be a very awkward conversation as I suspect he wont even know what it is. I suppose I could just say he has got it somehow, has given it to me but its all sorted if we take the treatment though I have a feeling there will be alot more questions.

    To the guy that says he wouldn't want to know, do you suppose I just slip it in his drink movie style, or actually just hand him the tablet and make up something like this will make you feel much less tired all day. god knows??
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    Do you really need to drug him? Can't you just give him a love potion instead? Much safer.



    I think you should tell what the pill is for. Even if you don't tell him immediately, eventually guilt will get the better of you anyway.
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    Erm..what is thrush?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Having thrush isn't really something you want every one to know don't you think.

    To those that say just tell him, I guess thats what I was expecting to hear. It'll still be a very awkward conversation as I suspect he wont even know what it is. I suppose I could just say he has got it somehow, has given it to me but its all sorted if we take the treatment though I have a feeling there will be alot more questions.

    To the guy that says he wouldn't want to know, do you suppose I just slip it in his drink movie style, or actually just hand him the tablet and make up something like this will make you feel much less tired all day. god knows??
    Crush it into a coffee or some food.
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    OP just tell him.

    Stop pussy footing around the problem. The only way to get it sorted is to tell him straight.

    I wouldn't risk 'slipping' him a pill - what if he's allergic to something in it?

    You're ****** then.
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    (Original post by Peachykeen09)
    Erm..what is thrush?
    I know you google pics'd it, and I also know that you're now feeling sick.
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    Useless relationship if you can't talk to him about those kind of things
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    (Original post by Smtn)
    Useless relationship if you can't talk to him about those kind of things
    o/
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    (Original post by n1r4v)
    I know you google pics'd it, and I also know that you're now feeling sick.
    I didn't google it until I read what you wrote. Oh god, I feel sick!
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    Oh come on! Thrush is incredibly common, not some exotic disease, I doubt your boyfriend would be that horrified. Even if it does gross him out, why should he not know about an infection that he has?
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    Haha...if you think you can get away with it, go ahead.
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    (Original post by Peachykeen09)
    I didn't google it until I read what you wrote. Oh god, I feel sick!
    The best way to predict the future is to state it. It was a ploy to make you google it . Sorry
 
 
 
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