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    I'm going through a period of bad depression at the moment and I had a bad 24 hours. I did nothing much yesterday (summer vac and can't find a job). I got told I was deluded by a university professor for asking about the possibility of a remark of my script, and I had a bad dream about never getting married and being a virgin forever - and if i do get married, nobody would come to my bachelors party because I have no friends

    I kind of feel isolated, always feel lonely and feel that I have no future, never will have any friends and i just want to not exist. Dignitas?

    Any one else feel like they'll never have friends and will die having always been lonely and single and a virgin?
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    Get rid of this attitude. Stop having a negative outlook on life, get your head down and work hard, then results will come.
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    I feel like i will be single forever (im not a virgin but i have been single for nearly 4 years now). If you don't have many friends then join more clubs at uni, get talking to people. You are at uni so you do have a future. Maybe do volunteer work if you can't find a job, im in the exactly same position as you. Being single for a while isnt the end of the world, its better than going through bad relationships. You will meet someone soon enough.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)


    I'm going through a period of bad depression at the moment and I had a bad 24 hours. I did nothing much yesterday (summer vac and can't find a job). I got told I was deluded by a university professor for asking about the possibility of a remark of my script, and I had a bad dream about never getting married and being a virgin forever - and if i do get married, nobody would come to my bachelors party because I have no friends

    I kind of feel isolated, always feel lonely and feel that I have no future, never will have any friends and i just want to not exist. Dignitas?

    Any one else feel like they'll never have friends and will die having always been lonely and single and a virgin?
    I used to think like that when I was younger. Sometimes.

    Then I realised that a permanent solution to a temporary problem was to jump off a very high building, and a good solution to the temporary problem was to get a new life in some respect or other.

    Literally, it is terribly easy today to just pack your things up and disappear. You can move to a new city, go out one night and get new friends, and with the coming of the internet age there are a million alternatives to 'getting a 9-5.'

    Not many people need to start their life afresh to that extreme, but its possible. You've got this one life (theology debates aside) and the Universe is really rather indifferent to whether it lasts 20 years or 80. Even if its ****, you might as well see what you can make out of it. I mean, people routinely jump out of planes or ski down the edge of mountains. For fun.

    So I'm sure you can get some fun out of life.
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    wel you're not gonna get far if you keep thinking like that. What's the point of crying about having no friends? Make some, school, uni, or just join a club or something.

    And seriously don't get depressed over a dream like that, you know it's a dream, doesn't mean it's gonna come true.
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    Screw a job, enjoy your vacation.
    Screw your dream, watch porn and have a wet dream.
    Screw marriage, cohabitation is the way foward (no party required)
    Screw friends, they will let you down, learn to enjoy your own company.
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    :hugs: I'm sorry to hear you're going through a tough time. But to be honest, from what you've described, you'd be surprised at the number of people in our age group who may be having similar problems.

    Also, if your professor honestly used the term 'deluded', that wasn't exactly professional of them. The least he/she could have done was give you some sound advice about what you could do. Work issues often cause stress for people our age though, and all you can really do is get on with it and try your best.

    As for not having friends and thinking you'll stay a virgin forever - sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself isn't going to help at all. Is there nobody at all you can talk to? If you live at home for university, it's sometimes considered harder to make friends... but it really shouldn't be. You can make some through lectures/tutorials/joining societies etc. if you have the right attitude. Dignitas is hardly suitable for someone like you, when you have the same problems as tonnes of students. It's hard to take that initial step and break out of the cycle, but you'll see how much easier things get once you start to see results. You'll miss out on so many opportunities and nothing will change if you don't just get out there and meet new people.
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    Start listening to some good music(not emo), start smoking cigarettes, start drinking alcohol, start going to night clubs, start interacting with people, start getting your head down and doing work and start growing up.

    You sound like one of those 12 year old emo girls who whine because its cloudy.
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    I´ve realized that all of the things I used to worry about when I was youngerm were stupid and all of my problems worked themselves out.

    In 5 years you´ll probably laughing about how deluded you were.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)


    I'm going through a period of bad depression at the moment and I had a bad 24 hours. I did nothing much yesterday (summer vac and can't find a job). I got told I was deluded by a university professor for asking about the possibility of a remark of my script, and I had a bad dream about never getting married and being a virgin forever - and if i do get married, nobody would come to my bachelors party because I have no friends

    I kind of feel isolated, always feel lonely and feel that I have no future, never will have any friends and i just want to not exist. Dignitas?

    Any one else feel like they'll never have friends and will die having always been lonely and single and a virgin?

    People like you really annoy me.
    My cousin was killed last month, he was hit by a lorry, nearly 18 years old. His whole life ahead of him, you are talking about killing yourself! Wasting your life!? It seems so unfair that he who loved his life, he was gorgeous and talented, made the most of it now can't enjoy it because it was taken from him, yet you want to end yours.

    :mad: :woo: :mad:
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    (Original post by ScotlandStandUp)
    Start listening to some good music(not emo), start smoking cigarettes, start drinking alcohol, start going to night clubs, start interacting with people, start getting your head down and doing work and start growing up.

    You sound like one of those 12 year old emo girls who whine because its cloudy.
    Start smoking cigarrettes?? start drinking alcohol?? This is for losers.
    The solution is very easy!!! Practice all the sport that you can resist!!! Sport is an important antidepresive, you will have an impresive body in 2 years (you will can to go with the best girls), you will know a lot of people that practice sport too, you health will be fine!!!!!! This is the secret!!! be happy !!!!!!
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    yeah well, your had a bad dream and now you wanna kill yourself? do you know...childish that sounds???

    oh and btw this is coming from someone who is suicidal herself right now...and not cos i got no friends, or cos im single (which i am and have been for 2 years) or cos i cant get a job (which i cant)...its cos my dad might be ill, its cos im tired of life, its cos im fed up of being treated like a ***** and talked about and im fed up of everything...but im trying my best not to think like that...try and take your mind off it...keep yourself busy, it helps trust me
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    STOP!!!, dont think like that, its really not worth it.
    You need to become more of a 'go getter' in life. Work harder at university, and join more clubs. Start to socialise a little bit more. I agree look for some volueenteering work. As for being single, you will meet some-one. Just have a more positive outlook on life, talk to more people and you will see results. Ending your life is not option!!
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    (Original post by BossManSingh)
    Screw a job, enjoy your vacation.
    Screw your dream, watch porn and have a wet dream.
    Screw marriage, cohabitation is the way foward (no party required)
    Screw friends, they will let you down, learn to enjoy your own company.
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    (Original post by girlmechanik)
    yeah well, your had a bad dream and now you wanna kill yourself? do you know...childish that sounds???

    oh and btw this is coming from someone who is suicidal herself right now...and not cos i got no friends, or cos im single (which i am and have been for 2 years) or cos i cant get a job (which i cant)...its cos my dad might be ill, its cos im tired of life, its cos im fed up of being treated like a ***** and talked about and im fed up of everything...but im trying my best not to think like that...try and take your mind off it...keep yourself busy, it helps trust me
    :mad:

    again. why can't my cousin have his life back, when selfish people like you consider ending theirs.
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    (Original post by indiecindie)
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    again. why can't my cousin have his life back, when selfish people like you consider ending theirs.
    oh **** off...you know nothing about my life or whats going on in my head, so stop judging and shut up.

    and im not considering it, im just permanently thinking about it...thats why im keeping busy, spending time with my godson and my mates
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    (Original post by girlmechanik)
    oh **** off...you know nothing about my life or whats going on in my head, so stop judging and shut up.

    and im not considering it, im just permanently thinking about it...thats why im keeping busy, spending time with my godson and my mates

    good, im glad you aren't considering it..
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    (Original post by indiecindie)
    good, im glad you aren't considering it..
    well i have done but theres too many people at stake...my godson for one.

    thats why im keeping busy...its something i'd advise for the thread starter
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    Sex is overrated, I'm 16 but my first time wasn't all that, we were both inexperienced. It doesn't really mean anything. It's only because you're putting pressure on yourself that it feels like your missing out.
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    (Original post by girlmechanik)
    well i have done but theres too many people at stake...my godson for one.

    thats why im keeping busy...its something i'd advise for the thread starter
    sorry i was so quick to criticise, but i do see suicide as so selfish to people around them and unfair to people who have lost their lives
 
 
 
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