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    (Original post by indiecindie)
    sorry i was so quick to criticise, but i do see suicide as so selfish to people around them and unfair to people who have lost their lives
    but theres so many things to think about before you criticise...such as are they truly suicidal or just attention seeking? are they mentally ill? are they terminally ill?

    you have to think before you start running your mouth off...and its hard to leanr, believe me, but it can be done x
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    suicide is for cowards*, man up and go make some friends..join a sports club or something

    *if you are just as the OP, obviously there can be other reasons
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    (Original post by jordi1714)
    Start smoking cigarrettes?? start drinking alcohol?? This is for losers.
    The solution is very easy!!! Practice all the sport that you can resist!!! Sport is an important antidepresive, you will have an impresive body in 2 years (you will can to go with the best girls), you will know a lot of people that practice sport too, you health will be fine!!!!!! This is the secret!!! be happy !!!!!!
    All the cool people drink and smoke.
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    (Original post by indiecindie)
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    again. why can't my cousin have his life back, when selfish people like you consider ending theirs.
    indiecindie, you've got no reason to apologise. You can say what the **** you want. Just because someone tells you to **** off, doesn't mean you should apologise for it. If people don't want to be judged they shouldn't chat their personal lives all over the ******* internet.
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    things change. life is a funny thing.
    its cheesy but: if you feel positive, you start to see things differently, better.
    its true.
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    (Original post by ScotlandStandUp)
    All the cool people drink and smoke.
    smoking <> cool
    smoking = lame and stupid.
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    (Original post by ScotlandStandUp)
    All the cool people drink and smoke.
    Yes, is very cool destroy your heath!!!!! All the stupid people drink and smoke!!!!
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    (Original post by oh_adele)
    indiecindie, you've got no reason to apologise. You can say what the **** you want. Just because someone tells you to **** off, doesn't mean you should apologise for it. If people don't want to be judged they shouldn't chat their personal lives all over the ******* internet.

    actually your totally right!!
    people who are suicidal because they are a fu**ing virgin! and have no friends pi*s me right off because some people actually deserve to have their life because they would live it to the full!!!!
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    (Original post by mysticdreamer)
    I feel like i will be single forever (im not a virgin but i have been single for nearly 4 years now). If you don't have many friends then join more clubs at uni, get talking to people. You are at uni so you do have a future. Maybe do volunteer work if you can't find a job, im in the exactly same position as you. Being single for a while isnt the end of the world, its better than going through bad relationships. You will meet someone soon enough.
    I know exactly how you feel hen. I haven't had a proper relationship for four years also, and sometimes I feel like I will never be in one again. Not because I'm being down on myself as such, but I just can't see myself ever being with someone else, or getting married etc.
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    Find something to do?
    There's ALWAYS something to live for!
    It doesn't matter what you do with your life, just do something you enjoy. Spin around in circles... do something that makes you smile and everything will seem so much better.
    Chin up!
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    As someone in the thread have already mentioned, Keep yourself busy! Do things that take your mind of things.

    You feel like you have no future, well why are you at uni?
    you say you got no friends, You're at uni! make some.

    Okay lets say you went through and commited suicide.

    Assuming that you have a family.. How will they feel? What would your mother do when she finds out that SHE wasnt approahed when her son/daughter was depressed? Instead complete strangers on the net were! (including myself)
    What would your father think of you after youve commited suicide? How would your family feel, React? Including cousins, aunts etc. How would your Childhood friends feel? What would they think, do, react? Then theres the media... That'll just escalate the situation and put ermmmmmmmm your family in more depression.

    Now talking about yourself... You think all of your life is a waste because they way you feel for a small amount of time compared to your AGE. You got into uni.. Ano some people who would die to get into uni but they arent academicly bright. Instantly you are better than alot of people. But you still feel down.

    The thing im tryna get at is that if you commit suicide it will affect more people than you think and could possible be a huge factor for them to go into depression. Vicious Cycle aint it.....


    Suicide is a selffish thought. Think about how it will affect people. Get some advice from someone face to face. Not from a forum.

    Just be patient and persevere through uni and i garantee you will have a future.
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    (Original post by indiecindie)
    actually your totally right!!
    people who are suicidal because they are a fu**ing virgin! and have no friends pi*s me right off because some people actually deserve to have their life because they would live it to the full!!!!
    I wasn't referring to the OP with that, just those who jumped in afterwards. But you don't have to apologise for having an opinion, that's just balls.

    OP - There's worse things to be than a virgin. There's also MANY people worse off than you. So you can't get a date ... you're not 6 years old and sitting in a hospital bed dying of cancer, or something of the similar. You have to grab life by the balls, not sit there and wait for it to get better by itself. **** happens. That's life. You have to deal with it not roll over and let it mess you up. Jesus.
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    (Original post by cruciform)
    Get rid of this attitude. Stop having a negative outlook on life, get your head down and work hard, then results will come.
    Too right!
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    the secret....get the book or dvd it may help xx
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    Talking to other people about anything might be the answer to all our problems, really.
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    (Original post by stephyrose23)
    I know exactly how you feel hen. I haven't had a proper relationship for four years also, and sometimes I feel like I will never be in one again. Not because I'm being down on myself as such, but I just can't see myself ever being with someone else, or getting married etc.
    It isn't like i have had offers even. I never get approached by guys and im at uni now so i feel like well if i dont meet anyone there then when will i? Its frustrating and it makes me feel like there is something wrong with me. Guys just seem to want one thing (at uni anyway) and i dont want that but being approached would help my confidence a bit. My one and only relationship was pretty awful because i think i felt stronger for him than he did for me and he took advantage of that (making me pay when we went out etc). But anyway i better stop before i start ranting lol
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    (Original post by Anonymous)


    I'm going through a period of bad depression at the moment and I had a bad 24 hours. I did nothing much yesterday (summer vac and can't find a job). I got told I was deluded by a university professor for asking about the possibility of a remark of my script, and I had a bad dream about never getting married and being a virgin forever - and if i do get married, nobody would come to my bachelors party because I have no friends

    I kind of feel isolated, always feel lonely and feel that I have no future, never will have any friends and i just want to not exist. Dignitas?

    Any one else feel like they'll never have friends and will die having always been lonely and single and a virgin?
    I am afraid people always go through something like this. Life isn't always fun fun fun. You bounce after a day or week Get a grip of yourself and stop being a tool.
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    Don't make a mess :awesome:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    As someone in the thread have already mentioned, Keep yourself busy! Do things that take your mind of things.

    You feel like you have no future, well why are you at uni?
    you say you got no friends, You're at uni! make some.

    Okay lets say you went through and commited suicide.

    Assuming that you have a family.. How will they feel? What would your mother do when she finds out that SHE wasnt approahed when her son/daughter was depressed? Instead complete strangers on the net were! (including myself)
    What would your father think of you after youve commited suicide? How would your family feel, React? Including cousins, aunts etc. How would your Childhood friends feel? What would they think, do, react? Then theres the media... That'll just escalate the situation and put ermmmmmmmm your family in more depression.

    Now talking about yourself... You think all of your life is a waste because they way you feel for a small amount of time compared to your AGE. You got into uni.. Ano some people who would die to get into uni but they arent academicly bright. Instantly you are better than alot of people. But you still feel down.

    The thing im tryna get at is that if you commit suicide it will affect more people than you think and could possible be a huge factor for them to go into depression. Vicious Cycle aint it.....


    Suicide is a selffish thought. Think about how it will affect people. Get some advice from someone face to face. Not from a forum.

    Just be patient and persevere through uni and i garantee you will have a future.
    well my dad used to beat the **** out of me since i was a kid and we don't talk and we're living under the same roof. My mum is racist and doesn't like me mixing with white people. She doesn't show that she cares about me either.

    As for that other post about excepts' isn't depression a mental illness? I've been getting help for it for the last 3 years but it comes and goes and it's in a crap phase at the moment. And to the person who has been single for 4 years...i've been single for al 22 years of my life!

    And to those that said make friends in uni - all i can say is: easier said than done. I tried going a few socials in uni last year but it was just a big piss up...no one really talked...just just drank, drank, went to the loo, drank. I just sat there drinking and nothing happened so i went home at like 10pm. not socialised with them since. I just find drinking so boring...no one really had a meaningful conversation - they were talking about quantum physics and other lame stuff....(this was the climbing club social). What kinda society has normal, decent people who like a normal conversation + normal chat. I really don't want to be talking about uni stuff when socialising...

    Thanks for all the replies but i find going out and socialising really hard because i'm very very very shy in real life.
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    ffs stop complaining so much you cry baby, people have it worse than you so grow the hell up and stop being a spoilt brat
 
 
 
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