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    Say you got with a guy but then dump him cos he cheated on you, or it just wasn't working out or you drifted apart or you didnt have much in common or you couldn't cope with a long distance relationhsip.

    After you have dumped him, do you still think hes good looking and so fancy him (just his looks). Or do you stop thinking hes fit even if you dumped him for personality reasons?
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    good q.

    all my ex's that i had BAD breakups with as a result of THEIR personality defects are now super ugly in my eyes.

    the ex's that i am on friendly terms with are still handsome in my eyes.

    yes, it is the personality that makes the face.
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    sometimes, but depends how the breakup was. Not so bad breakup, can still see that they're attractive but think am done with that person. Bad breakup, i wonder what i ever saw in them and think they're the ugliest human being alive. I'm a charmer
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    Erm yah. If there was genuine attraction it usually doesn't fizzle away immediately (though sometimes it does).
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    ive not had a bad break up but all of my exs i still find attractive.
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    I still think all of my ex's are good looking. One of them got a bit ugly for a while, but then he finished uni and cleaned up his act and looks alright again lol.
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    I don't get why you wouldn't not find them attractive. I mean you went out with that person because you thought they were attractive so I don't see how breaking up can change that. But then again I've never been in a relationship so I don't really know :rolleyes:
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    One of my exes is not attractive at all. It wasn't his looks that I liked him for, it was his personality. When I realised what a **** he really was, the attraction to his personality went away.

    He told me afterwards that he didn't think I was even pretty, but I know that was a lie, because he had always said the first thing he noticed was my looks. I think he was just trying to make me feel bad.

    I think unless it was a bad breakup, I'd still find him attractive, because ultimately, he's still the same.
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    Yeah its true, I went through a very bad breakup, and I don't even know what I saw in my ex, and think he was an ego-maniac who is self-centered, selfish, controlling and pig-headed.
    And it's true were all charmers here as well :rollseyes:
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    yuhuh :yes:
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    Yeah he is still a great person and I guess is good looking
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    Um...most of the time if I stop liking someone I don't find them attractive anymore. If I'm on good terms with them I might be able to acknowledge that someone else could find them fit...but for me it just goes away.
 
 
 
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