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    This guy used to really like me I think, he'd text me all the time all day, everyday he went on holiday recently and he seems less interested, his ex girlfriend is also being a biatchhh to him.
    He hardly texts me anymore and it's always be intiating contact with him. He doesn't want to meet up just now because of the circumstances with his ex, but I'm going to a gig next month where he will be at too.

    So how do I get him interested again? Arghh. The only contact I seem to have with him is phone, though I could add him on bebo I guess?

    I really appreciate any help. :o: And dislike them fact that he seems to have 'gone off' me, because this happened to me before with a different guy hmph.
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    -Cut contact, but should you come into contact by chance, don't be rude.
    -Work on yourself.
    -He'll probably be interested in what you're upto.
    (If he isn't, then find someone else.)
    -If he is, show off the new developments you've made to yourself.
    - ???
    - Win.
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    dont initiate any contact anymore. play cold. he'll come back. if he doesnt, then he isnt interested anymore and it would be sad for u to chase him then.
    dont add him on bebo.
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    I would just wait a while and see how it plays out...maybe he needs to think about things.
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    You can't make him be interested. If he is interested let him do the running around and chasing you, making contact etc...
    Don't make any more contact with him, guys don't like that sort of thing, tends to make them feel 'closed in'. All the contact will make him feel like your being needy so if he wants you let him chase you.

    Sorry I just realised that reads like I'm rambling on but yeah hope you get what i mean.
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    You can't really force a guy to be interested again, he's probably cut his losses and moved on.
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    As sais leave him be for the time being, if he is interested he will come back and start talking to you, it may be a genuine reason for not wanting to get to envolved at the moment for the reasons you have said.

    However if he dosent make the effort it is a clear sign as to how he feels i would say.
 
 
 
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