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    So here's the issue. I told this guy i liked him afew months ago, and he didnt really give me a reply apart from saying he didnt know how he felt and it was complicated. We were really good friends so I didnt want to ruin that so we kinda just continued 2 be friendly hang out etc and I was okay with the fact he didn't like me back. He's a uni mate so now im at home over the summer i havent really had much contact with him which has been good for me 2 get over liking him. However he's been texting me alot recently saying lots of stuff that we have 2 do when we get back, and making plans and stuff. He also phoned me and we were chatting for an hour or so. I'm under the assumption that its all friendly given what happened b4, but some people are telling me that maybe theres more to it and he's come 2 his senses. Do you think he's just being a good friend or he's thinking something else? Hope u guys can give ur insight! Thanks
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    mmm sounds like an weird situation. Could just be that he wants go get back to how it was before. He obviously thinks alot of you if he's making the effort to phone you. I guess the only thing i can say is wait to see how it is when u get back to uni.
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    It could be a number of things, its hard to tell if he is intrested as he could be hoping the situation has returned to 'just friends' or he might be pushing for something else.
    I think it will be easier to work this out once you are back to being around each other. You can also see if he lives up to the promises hes made of things you are going to do when you are back at Uni. If he makes a much more concerted effort then it could be a good sign.
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    This is good advice by a moderator :yep:
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    The situation is that he doesnt like you
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    The situation is; just ******* ask him.
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    (Original post by James')
    The situation is; just ******* ask him.
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    If she asks him and he doesn't like her = A swift return to weirdness and awkwardness.

    Listen to mollymustard OP. Just see how things go, I would. I presume if he does like you he will eventually get around to making it clear.

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    And then deny it when you ask him, before then admitting it on three separate occasions all the while telling you he's not taking it anywhere. DON'T BE BITTER, SHAMBLES. DON'T BE BITTER. :moon:
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    I'd wait it out - he'll tell you if he "likes" you.

    Otherwise you run the risk of making things awkward again
 
 
 
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