I couldn't agree more with this. I got over a guy I absolutely adored when a new person came along...trust me it does work(Original post by Craig_D)
- Watch TV comedies non stop
- Eat ice cream
- Develop a new crush (this works best of all, as soon as you get a new crush the others go out the window, trust me)
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Trying to get over ex girlfriend. watch
- 24-07-2009 09:31
(Original post by Anonymous)
- 24-07-2009 21:43
Haha, I am sad to disappoint you but no, lalala is not my ex.
My ex isn't gone from my life, she's also happens to be one of my best friends, so I speak to her and see her very often. Which makes it harder.
- 24-07-2009 21:52
replace all the hurt and sadness with coldness.
erase her photos and delete her from msn and facebook.
avoid seeing her. delete her number. ignore all calls. do not text her.
then, make yourself busy with 1) friends 2) a new girl
that my friend, is the recipe for nursing a bruised heart.
(Original post by amiparanoid)
- 24-07-2009 23:54
In return for my neg rep, op, here is my real advice:
If you're asking TSR for help in getting over her, get a life. Stop making your life into a drama, it's not that special. If you're going to tell anyone, tell her and sort that out yourself (if you're such good friends). It's nobody else's business and telling the world just makes you look like a narcissistic ****.
Good luck. You may need it.
- 25-07-2009 01:04
From my experience it is -rarely- possible to come out of a relationship with someone you adored so much and then carry on as friends.
You need to try and forget about her.
Otherwise you'll find yourself stranded in deep water when you find out she has moved on.
It hurts so much to let go, but it really is all you can do.
Sure, in a few months you can start to chat to her again, but until you can talk to her without your feelings taking first place, you should cease contact.
Also, your male friends are the best cure at this stage.
- 25-07-2009 07:43
Get re-interested in hobbies. go out with friends (though continue to stay away from drugs/alcohol/gambling b/c you're still in a semidepressed mode)