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    A guy I've been speaking to on the internet for a long time came to England this summer and we've met up quite a few times. I really really like him, we've had some great days out together, and even before we met we told each other everything, we've really connected. He's been my first kiss and I care about him so much. But the thing is, this week he's going back to his home country and I can't bear the thought of it, I'm going to miss him so much I've never liked a boy like this, or got close to anyone like this.

    I don't know how I'm going to cope, when I'm with him he makes me feel so happy, but he's leaving soon and I may never see him again, and if I do it won't be for a long time. I've been crying when I think about him leaving, I don't know what to do Can someone help me?
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    Does he know?
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    Just because he's moving away doesn't mean that you won't ever be able to talk to him again. There are loads of ways that you and him can keep in touch and sometimes long distance relationships can work out for the better. You should tell him how you feel, see what he says and maybe you and him can give it a shot. No relationship is easy and yes you will have extra hurdles but you can work through them and when you do, you and him will be stronger for it.
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    Oh hai emotional attachment. You'll feel better once he's actually gone considering, at the moment, he's in the country right now and that gives the illusion he's going to stay.

    I was going to ask how old you were, but unless you're about 50, it's not the end of the world.
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    Yes, he said he feels the same way :/
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    If you both like each other why don't you try a Long distance relationship? I met my bf on the internet and we 've been together for 10 months now, currently spending all summer together which feels great :woo:
    I live in Greece btw and he in England.
    I don't know your situation ( uni, school, work ) but if you can see being able to spend some money on tickets then why cant you try it ?
    Where is he from btw ?
 
 
 
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