I've heard so many girls saying that it hurt when they first had sex and was wondering if it is still likely to hurt if the girl has masturbated often from a very young age. Does anyone know?
First time sex watch
- Thread Starter
- 24-07-2009 17:22
- 24-07-2009 18:55
If she has used objects to masturbate probably not as much.
- 24-07-2009 19:42
Yeah, if it was penetrative masturbation, even just fingers, it will make it easier, and things like using tampons has the same effect. If it's not penetrative it won't make any difference from a physical point of view, but from a psychological maybe because she'd done sexual stuff before, she'd be less anxious about it, and relax more.
- 25-07-2009 21:28
I didn't have any pain when I had sex the first time and, even though I was quite 'active' before then, I think it was because I felt so relaxed with my partner and wasn't at all tense. I hope this helps- just remember, first time sex is unlikely to be the best you'll ever have, so persevere!