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    I've heard so many girls saying that it hurt when they first had sex and was wondering if it is still likely to hurt if the girl has masturbated often from a very young age. Does anyone know?
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    If she has used objects to masturbate probably not as much.

    Yeah, if it was penetrative masturbation, even just fingers, it will make it easier, and things like using tampons has the same effect. If it's not penetrative it won't make any difference from a physical point of view, but from a psychological maybe because she'd done sexual stuff before, she'd be less anxious about it, and relax more.

    I didn't have any pain when I had sex the first time and, even though I was quite 'active' before then, I think it was because I felt so relaxed with my partner and wasn't at all tense. I hope this helps- just remember, first time sex is unlikely to be the best you'll ever have, so persevere!
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