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    Mother with manic depression who wake me up this morning at 5 am telling me to call the ambulance

    Crap friends who cant accept me and who just bring me down.

    No one special in my life who can be there for me now.

    I wish I could let it out and have a good cry but I cant even do that!
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    Councilling?
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    Meh
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    Don't tell us, confront the people making you feel like that.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Mother with manic depression who wake me up this morning at 5 am telling me to call the ambulance

    Crap friends who cant accept me and who just bring me down.

    No one special in my life who can be there for me now.

    I wish I could let it out and have a good cry but I cant even do that!
    A.) Move out.
    B.) Find new friends
    C.) Find a girlfriend
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    Let people you know !. You will feel much better after you let it out , promise. And can I suggest councilling ?. And I'm sure people do care , we care , I care , which is why I'm giving you advice

    Good luck , hope you get better
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    before reading my post please mind my english as it is not very good.

    last week i was depressed as hell because i found myself in a new country on the other side of the world and the people in my school are not very welcoming. This was very hard for me, i was homesick and i cried every night till i fell asleep and i went here on the forums to try and feel better but one of the members mentioned that i should go counselling in my school and this really helped me because the counseller understood everything i said and i just let everything out. she gave me advice and she told me that not all of NZ is like that and that i should focus on my studies. other people don't have opportunities to leave their country and have better education.
    i felt so much better after the counseller and everything is much better now. what i suggest u to do is go to a counseler u won't regret it they will help you and listen to you.

    don't worry if you cry because i am sure that they are used to this.
    I wish you luck!
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    Why can't you have a good cry?
    Counselling is a great idea, or even an anonymous helpline just to have someone to listen to you would help a lot.
    You need to stop hanging around with people who are bringing you down. There are a lot of great people out there who are brilliant friends, you just need the patience to find them. Same goes for boyfriends/girlfriends.
    It must be very difficult for your mother too, have you tried talking things through with her so you can work through it together?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Mother with manic depression who wake me up this morning at 5 am telling me to call the ambulance

    Crap friends who cant accept me and who just bring me down.

    No one special in my life who can be there for me now.

    I wish I could let it out and have a good cry but I cant even do that!
    I know the feeling; buy you have yourself whom will never let you down.
    Stop the depression for the sake of yourself.

    Why did your mum want you to call an ambulance exactly?
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    (Original post by Maximum Velocity)
    Let people you know !. You will feel much better after you let it out , promise. And can I suggest councilling ?. And I'm sure people do care , we care , I care , which is why I'm giving you advice

    Good luck , hope you get better
    absolutely!:yes:
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    Councilling.

    It help's.

    =]
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    (Original post by FAILINGKID)
    before reading my post please mind my english as it is not very good.

    last week i was depressed as hell because i found myself in a new country on the other side of the world and the people in my school are not very welcoming. This was very hard for me, i was homesick and i cried every night till i fell asleep and i went here on the forums to try and feel better but one of the members mentioned that i should go counselling in my school and this really helped me because the counseller understood everything i said and i just let everything out. she gave me advice and she told me that not all of NZ is like that and that i should focus on my studies. other people don't have opportunities to leave their country and have better education.
    i felt so much better after the counseller and everything is much better now. what i suggest u to do is go to a counseler u won't regret it they will help you and listen to you.

    don't worry if you cry because i am sure that they are used to this.
    I wish you luck!
    If I'm honest, your English is much better than quite a lot of native speakers these days, as it goes :rolleyes:
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    If your mum has manic depression (aka bipolar) then the CMHT treating her may be able to offer you counselling too. I know they offered it to my parents when I was at my worst to give them an outlet to talk to someone outside of the family, to let off steam and to help them too. Can you see if they offer this for you, due to your mum's condition causing you a great deal of stress.
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    Ultimately you only have yourself to fall back on.

    It might look like the world is collapsing around you, but what defines us is not what we do when the times are good, but when the times are bad. Stick through and you'll emerge stronger and wiser than ever.
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    go see your doctor, councelling didnt work for me but it does for others so maybe, there also advice lines they wont judge you can just talk for hours moaning and they will listen
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    Brother Ur Guna Rely Hav To Lift Uself Up!!
    Stop Feling Sorry 4u Self
    Ur Guna Have Ups And Downs Its Life
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    in reply to the title, if no-one knows, they're not gona be able to care :confused:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Mother with manic depression who wake me up this morning at 5 am telling me to call the ambulance

    Crap friends who cant accept me and who just bring me down.

    No one special in my life who can be there for me now.

    I wish I could let it out and have a good cry but I cant even do that!
    If no one knows, you basically have to tell someone... Go to your GP, talk to the people who look after your mother, talk to a teacher or lecturer or a relative or a friend.

    Its strange when we feel down we seem to expect everyone to be able to tell but when you think about it, we're probably all guilty of not noticing when the people around us are having problems. You're not really giving people a chance to help and care if you don't talk to them.

    If your friends are bringing you down, you should probably avoid spending time with them. And I'm sure someone special will come along when you least expect it.

    I hope things improve, but you really should talk to someone, it will help.
 
 
 
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