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Putting condom on kills the moment for me watch

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    At the moment I am finding that having to stop to put a condom on before sex is completely ruining the moment for me, sometimes I will lose my hardon and find it really difficult to get hard again which is fustrating for me and equally fustrating for my girlfriend

    Does anyone have any advice on this problem?
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    Hmm my boyfriend and i tried to have sex for the first time recently but he also lost it after going to get the condom, i tried to make him feel better about as he seemed to feel pretty bad but i suppose all you can try and do is relax and most importantly don't think that its going to happen again.
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    I have the same problem, and for now relying on viagra, but it works
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    Is it the having to stop and concentrate that does it? That used to happen to my ex-boyfriend. Perhaps getting your girlfriend to put it on you or keep touching you as you do it would help?
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    I'm the first non Anon...

    OP, get your girlfriend to put it on and play with it while she's at it.

    If you still can't do it then try viagra but foreplay usually works.

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    If she knows how to do it i.e. rolls it on the right way and doesn't try inside out, then let her do it. Might keep you standing to attention.
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    Get her to do it?
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    +1 for get her to do it. Takes the pressure off of you.
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    (Original post by Mad Vlad)
    +1 for get her to do it. Takes the pressure off of you.
    Get her to do it with her mouth :drool:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have the same problem, and for now relying on viagra, but it works
    i was the same as this guy, i used to lose it a lot when putting it on, got some viagra off a m8 who used them for same reason + for sex on drugs, then got gf on the pill. never found a solution, so have rarely used a johnny.
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    Yeah condoms are a *****.

    If it takes you ages to get one on it could be cause it's too small. I find mates and normal trojan impossible to fit round my wang and Durex are pretty tight too. I've heard there are XXL condoms in the Trojan line, will try them out sometime.

    Best bet is to get her to go on the pill. If not, always have a condom in your pocket so you don't have to go looking.
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    I really dont like them Not just the feeling, but stopping everything as she goes 'so have you got a condom?' is just a major turn off for me
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    At the moment I am finding that having to stop to put a condom on before sex is completely ruining the moment for me, sometimes I will lose my hardon and find it really difficult to get hard again which is fustrating for me and equally fustrating for my girlfriend

    Does anyone have any advice on this problem?
    Maybe you are abit you know...thick. So you might need to use extra large condoms.

    My bf had the exact same problem the condoms used to suffocate him. So now he use XL condoms
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    Yeah go for the XL condoms. I imagine buying them never gets old.

    *Puts XXL condoms on counter*
    *...gloats.*
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    Well i personally have no problem, i can still retain my erection.
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    Using Viagra is a bit extreme isn't it?
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    (Original post by 300mg)
    Yeah go for the XL condoms. I imagine buying them never gets old.

    *Puts XXL condoms on counter*
    *...gloats.*
    ye putting a pack of 'Tree Trunks' on the counter and watching us regular schlubs trying to hide the label on our packet of 'Dinkies'
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    becoming pregnant would ruin the moment more
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    (Original post by Gibb~)
    Using Viagra is a bit extreme isn't it?
    Meh, a lot of people just use it recreationally.

    I know of one couple who used it once and enjoyed it so much that it's now a regular part of their sex life.
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    haha i haven't seen a condom since y9 pshe lessons... ****gg
 
 
 
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